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A collection of stories, thoughts, wanderings, and a bunch of fictional writing. A place to develop my characters or just think out loud... You'll never know what may be true or not.
So many people always ask...how do you know he's the one? It appears as a theme of movies, questioned by millions of young lovers who want to know how married people find the One. You can almost hear the capitalization on the letter...the One. I've often wondered this myself. How do you know the person you love is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with? How do you find that complete happiness with a person so you know you are conteted to be with them and not want to look for someone else afterwards?

I've questioned this so many times. When I was with my ex, I would picture my future and be terrified. I couldn't imagine spending my life with him, keeping house with him and taking care of him. It seriously scared me. I didn't want to think about fighting with him for ever. We broke up soon after and I was relieved.

Now I'm with the most wonderful man and I've never been happier. Yes, I still wonder about what it would be like to date other men...but I always want Soren there with me in the end. I would love to flirt and date other guys...so long as I could end up with Soren. Because that's all that really matters to me, is being with him. I often contemplate what my future would be like. And all I can think about is how wonderful it would be. We've been dating close to two years. And still, his kisses make me melt. With his lips pressed against mine, I feel so wonderful and safe and so loved. When I see him, I just can't help but love him so much.

But the thing is, even when we're fighting or mad at each other...I know I can't let him go. No matter how mad I am at him, I know we have to get back together. We've never broken up longer than a few hours the entire time we've been dating. Someone once asked me if I thought he was the one I would end up with and I responded yes...for this exact reason. No matter how mad I am at him, I never can hate him entirely because I love him so much. No matter what goes wrong between us, I still love him. And want to be with him. I can't let him go.

He's always there to comfort me when I'm low or scared. He doesn't laugh at me or make me feel bad about anything. I feel complete when I'm with him. And when I'm curled in his arms, I feel like I'm home. Like it is where I belong. And I never want to leave.

And that's how I know he's The One. And I will wait for him...forever. Until he's finally ready to settle down with me. And knows I'm the One for him. I hope that day will come.

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commentCommented on: Sun Nov 12, 2006 @ 03:46am
Wow that's nice... whee Yeah it's difficult finding the one you love and not wanting to meet other people. I still roam and until I find someone whom I love from the bottom of my heart, heart I will continue to roam. Come to think of it, I'll have many heart breaks... 3nodding But won't it be worth it in the end... question

commentCommented on: Sun Nov 12, 2006 @ 04:10am
You can tell someone's the one when you look in his or her eyes and you don't see a little upside down image of yourself, but the soul of the other person. 3nodding

Nice entry. Made me warm and fuzzy inside. whee

Good luck with your relationship!

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commentCommented on: Sun Nov 12, 2006 @ 04:18pm
Aww, that's gorgeous! heart

commentCommented on: Mon Nov 13, 2006 @ 12:08am
That is really sweet. It's nice to hear some people are really happy together, and can get over silly fights, seeing how many people can't get over stupid things like that. I'm glad you aren't rushing into marriage, and just staying a couple until you are both sure you want that commitment. That is how you really get to know if they are really "The One".

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commentCommented on: Wed Nov 15, 2006 @ 11:01pm
heart Haha! I like to say I've found my "One" as well! It is really nice, ne? I really enjoy just being with him. It makes me realize just how much I'm so very comfortable with him and how much I love him for who he is. I mean, we could be doing nothing, and I'll be sooo very content just to be there together with him.

For instance, one of my favorite things over the summer was watching Anime and eating Haribo Gummis with him! Soooo much fun! xd

commentCommented on: Mon Nov 20, 2006 @ 05:51am
Thats like what I went through! I'm glad I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with the man I'm with!

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commentCommented on: Wed Dec 06, 2006 @ 01:35pm
thats awesome, i'm so happy for you! i would love to have someone love me that way! i hope you two do workout and live together and all that in the end... i do.

commentCommented on: Sun Dec 24, 2006 @ 07:01am
omg this is soooooooooooooooo i cant even put it in words its making me cry its soooooo happy crying

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commentCommented on: Fri Dec 29, 2006 @ 05:14am
Lovers quarrels huh? (Especially breaking up for a few hours *shivers* no more of that, ok? scream )

Haha, the One, matrix style.. LOL but this is Love style.. haha... well, I hope I can find the One for me soon. .as I've been reading your One and I want my One.. lol and i've told you my thoughts on your One in previous posts so i say this in this post, don't let him go, k? wink

commentCommented on: Tue Jan 29, 2008 @ 03:09am
you go girl. (:

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commentCommented on: Tue Mar 18, 2008 @ 01:01am
Love..... heart

commentCommented on: Mon Jun 30, 2008 @ 04:26am
Ohh my. girl, if you know you both are perfect for each other, then don't ever give up on this man! if you feel that he is the 'One' then go for it. But if you can picture you both married, and then getting into a huge fight over something small, then I wouldn't suggest you stay with him. That's just me, and it would be hard to do that, but if you have ANY suspicions of him going off with another girl then it's not worth it at all.

imagine yourself sitting at home wondering where he is all the time. I'm just rambling so ignore me if you feel that I'm being a pessimist.

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commentCommented on: Tue Jun 26, 2012 @ 05:17am
I am happy that you have found the one. You go through many relationships to find that one. Its like this you climb a tree at the bottom are all the rotten apples that have fallen off which are the ex's and the bad guys, but it takes time to climb that tree during the climb you go through many more, but you realize that after however long it takes to climb that tree when you reach the top you are bound to find that one apple that you can savior for the rest of your life and the climb up to the top to find the one was all worth while. I am happy that you found that one apple you can savior forever <3

commentCommented on: Sun Oct 06, 2013 @ 04:27pm
What a beautiful feeling it must be. I once thought I'd found The One, but things... it turned out that we both had to work on ourselves before we could be healthy for each other. Maybe things will come around, maybe not... I'm just glad that you sound happy!

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