• Remember that you are a strong woman with a child. A handsome or beautiful child that should be raised properly. I think that every woman has the power of a hundred other humans that do not own kids. You need to find a man who is willing to help you harness your positive energy. Who is willing to help you raise your kids and play with them as if they were their OWN. Never go for a man that is worthless like most of us are. Ignore the man that only comments on your "sexy" pictures and not the pictures of your kids! Me personally.. I want to teach children important life lessons. I would teach them in fun ways too! Like maybe make a D&D game that focuses around morals. Or Manners. Child like you know? Maybe play tea party with daughters/or sons. Even football with Sons/or daughters. I think you need to let a child be a child. Let them have fun. That is how they learn the best! Find a man who is willing to teach your child the joys of life, the beauty in things. Teach them not to be lazy that being productive and active is fun! Do not give them video games until they are in their mid teens! It will bite you in the bottom. xD Please women, do what is right not just for you. But for your child! Find a man who loves you both equally


    REMEMBER YOU ARE AMAZING JUST THE WAY YOU ARE!!


    Guys. We need to have a heart to heart. Most guys are fun loving guys and we are allowed to be until we want to stop. But there is a time when we want to be fathers... That does not mean the fun should stop there! It just requires a different kind of fun. biggrin Real dads are amazing people. Let me share with you what I think a being a real father is all about! smile


    I think being a father is about being serious but having fun while doing it. smile Fathers, we need to be able to love a woman and her child the most we can. We need a good job, no life altering addictions. No I know what you are asking. "Does this mean I cannot drink?" No of course it does not. Just do not drink around your children. They do not need to be delved into that world. They will learn about it later in life. Fathers should be responsible but silly, hardworking but hard playing as well. We need to be able to balance life. Save a day where it is just for you! Get away for a while. Drink with your mature friends... That will not corrupt you. If your child needs you on your day off.. Go to them. They are more important than a day off with your buds.. Got it? Remember to teach them all you can with kindness. Games and fun times! Do not growl at them when you are frustrated! Smile and play. They will make your life so much better. Take them camping whether they are a boy or girl. Teach them to shoot a gun in self defense and not for harm! If your son or daughter turns out gay, do not abandon them!! Stay with them. Make them feel welcome. They are your CHILDREN!! Play with them anyways! Hold your lover/wife/girlfriend tight and tell them you love them. Then go to your or her child and hug them tighter and tell them you will always be there for them. Tell them no one shall harm either of them while you are there! Give them all the love in the world. Here is a fun thing to do! Make a planner! Plan a play date every other day never let the child know! Surprise them!! They will love it! If you do not like every other day. Make it once a week or a month! biggrin