• So I'm just relaxing on the living room couch yesterday when I get a call from my best friend. No she isn't one of those friends that is only your best friend because you had a assignment one day in class and had to pick someone you talk to on a regular basis. I mean a best friend that you both experience each other's drama and they are still holding you up when its all over. SO my best friend tells me that the people I thought were my friends because we all hang out together after school and eat lunch together and stuff like that, have been talking about me behind my back. So here's me thinking 'What the hell?!' So after I get all the details and everything, we finish the conversation and the next day I'm still thinking about what she said.

    Mostly my so-called 'friends' were peeved about me always being a happy person. Now in your opinion would you rather have a friend that was optimistic and encouraging or a friend that's completely emo and only look at the negatives in life? So I'm think about this and everything and then I have the epiphany.

    See there's this other girl in my religion class who, in my opinion, is a completely ditz and I have now come to realize that she's not, she just wants to be funny and she's good at it. At first I hated her because I found her weird and everything but when I thought about why my own friends don't like me because of my personality I suddenly realized that I was completely wrong myself! Who am I to ask to be treated fairly for being myself when I was hatin' on someone who was just being themselves!

    So I realized that I should really treat people the same way I would be treated because it then it would be fair on both sides of the spectrum!

    So that is my epiphany: Hate because someone has done you completely wrong. Do not hate because of something so petty as a person having a different personality than your own.