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a few facts- you shouldn't bother talking to me, if you fulfill some of them:<br />
-> I'm NOT here for online dating or something, seriously I don't have a high opinion of the whole "online relationship" stuff, for me something like that is an illusion. you CAN'T know someone from just writing with them, you have liars, you have cheaters and people are ALWAYS different in real life, not to mention that there is so much more that has to fit when you are in a real relationship. <br />
Sorry if I hurt anyone with my words, but with all my years on gaia, it seems like people are just here because they have a low self esteem and NEED someone, they don't even care who it is, just not being alone is everything they want-> total bullshit to me.<br />
That shouldn't mean that I don't appreciate people who I met online, I certainly do, I care about them, I love to be around them, or else I wouldn't be here. It just means that mostly there is a certain group of people who are looking for online dates, and I want to avoid them, doesn't mean that everyone is the same, of course, but like 90% of the people follow a certain scheme...<br />
well, anways, the difference between falling in love and friendship development (for me) is for once the time. When people are falling for someone in the internet, they fall really fast, because they thing that they NOW have found the right partner, but they think that actually before even talking a lot of them... like you start talking with somone and then you start liking the way they thing etc and then you are already thinking different of them- not in a frienship manner but in a 'What if we would be together manner'<br />
but the most important thing is to getting to know people, here and in RL, and this is the second point: when people are falling in love, they often want to show themselves from a good side, in internet they can easily do that, they could lie to you and you would think 'This person would never do that to me' but let's be honest... if someone is cheating or you or fooling around with you, you wouldn't know, because these are people who do that since decades of time... they are actors and the more often they do it, the better they get...<br />
well, with your friends, you talk about everything, but when you are in love you try to avoid certain topics, because they may hurt the other one, or you are afraid of what they might think of you... but serously, I wouldn't want that... I want a person who can cope with my opinion and who knows that I'm not personally attacking them... People in love tend to take everything personal and this is really hard to handle when you are not face to face...<br />
another point is that I'm a very outgoing person, I want to do stuff with my love, it would kill me to not being able to really see each other or do things together...<br />
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-> I don't like people who are living the victim role, seroiusly, we all experienced shit in our life, so don't pretend that you are the poorest soul ever... you want a change, then don't use your past as an excuse and fucking do something to make a better future. Noone is waiting for you, YOU have to go out and do something. <br />
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-> Seriously, be able to inform yourself about stuff, I don't want to explain every little thing to you... if your answer to my posts and everytime it contains another question, which easily can be answered by fucking google, I will stop answering you.<br />
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-> Me being online doesn't mean that I automatically will talk to you, I chose when I talk to someone and when not... I want my freedom and I take it, so don't be hurt when you won't hear from me within a few hours.<br />
I often randomly disappear- means that I either have stuff to do or what else, it usually doesn't have anything to do with you.<br />
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-> If you are easily getting sad or hurt because I tell you my opinion, keep away from me... I have a sharp tongue and I use it, I can also can cope with you telling me your opinion in a harsher way, at least if what you are saying is not total bullshit.<br />
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Other than that I'm cool with talking to people, I do love to talk to new people, to learn and hear about new stuff smile <br />
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I don't how to love very well<br />
It's not as if I don't try<br />
I know I've made some big mistakes<br />
But everyone has right<br />
I don't know how to love very well<br />
I've been bad I'm not gonna lie<br />
Somehow you found the good in me<br />
And god we just feel right<br />
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Maybe we're stronger together<br />
Than we are apart<br />
Come and put your hands on me<br />
We'll make the magic start<br />
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And I, I will follow you<br />
To hell and back<br />
If you need me to<br />
And I, I will follow you<br />
Maybe we're enough<br />
Maybe you need me too<br />
I'm with you<br />
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I don't know how to love very well<br />
Happy endings don't like me<br />
But since I found you I know this..<br />
They're not always what we think they'll be<br />
I don't know to love very well<br />
I saw you as the enemy<br />
We look into each other's eyes<br />
I know her and she knows me<br />
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A soul mate is someone who you carry with you forever.<br />
It's the one person who knew you and accepted you and believed in you before anyone else did or when no one else would.<br />
Well, it's like a best friend, but more.<br />
It's the one person in the world that knows you better than anyone else.<br />
It's someone who makes you a better person.<br />
Actually, they don't make you a better person, you do that yourself because they inspire you.<br />
Well, it seems to me that the best relationships - the ones that last - are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before.<br />
Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is...<br />
suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.<br />
It’s not just someone to hold you under, it needs to be someone who can pull you back.<br />
Someone that has a strong connection to you… a kind of emotional tether.<br />
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≈People are like stained-glass windows.<br />
They sparkle and shine when the sun is out but when the darkness sets in,<br />
their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light within.≈<br />
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Lifetime Friends, however, are my touchstones, my lifeblood. Without them, my life is empty. They are there through the thick and thin, exurberence, and sorrow. No matter what happens in our lives, our friendship remains. Sometimes we aren’t as close as others, but we always come back together. The thing about Lifetime Friends is that we can be apart for a decade or more, but when we finally come back together, it's like time has stood still and we pick up right where we left off. Being a Lifetime Friend has nothing to do with when the friendship began. It could be a 40 year old friendship or a 4 week old friendship.<br />
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I am a travel agent.... I have the advance degrees in accounting, public relations, marketing, business building, computer science, civil engineering and Swahili.<br />
Of course I remember the reservation you booked six years ago, even though you don't have a confirmation number and you think it was made under a last name that begins with a T.<br />
It's no problem for me to give you seven connecting non-smoking poolside suites with 2 king beds and 4 rollaways in each, and yes, it is my fault that the hotel does not have a helicopter pad.<br />
I speak all languages and have visited every destination.<br />
It's obvious to me when you book your reservation for Friday, you really mean Saturday.<br />
My company has entrusted me with financial information, and yet I can't tell you why your hotel bill for March 1989 had a 50p phone call because, of course, you shouldn't have to pay for calls.<br />
I understand that Joe Blow Ltd. is a vast empire and will make or break my agency.<br />
Yes, I am lying when I say there are no seats left at the lowest price.<br />
No, it's not a problem for me to quickly construct several more guest rooms at the hotel you want, and this time I will not forget the helicopter landing pad!<br />
I am capable of checking fares for three people, taking five reservations and answering fifteen calls simultaneously.<br />
I always know where to find the best vegetarian, kosher, and Mongolian barbecue restaurants.<br />
I know exactly what to do in all cities without spending money.<br />
I take responsibility for airline food, traffic jams, rental car flat tires, weather, hotel locations, and the national economy.<br />
Of course I can fit you into the hotel at the special corporate rate because you are affiliated with the Blackburn North Lawn Bowls club.<br />
I am never offended when I spend 10 hours researching a 12 day Europe itinerary only to hear you say you "booked it yourself over the internet and saved £30!" I also never gloat when you call back to say the rate was sold out or that you are stuck in the middle of nowhere since they cancelled your flight and you cannot "call" your internet provider to be re-protected on another flight.<br />
I love when people walk up to me at parties and out of the blue expect me to know the latest airlines fares from Melbourne to Ibiza via Byron Bay, the Maldives and Nairobi "off the top of my head".<br />
I love that everyone assumes I get to travel everywhere for free and when I do get to take advantage of a perk people act like it is a sin against nature. If you ask me to get you the rate at my "travel agent discount" I will kill you.<br />
Don't bother telling me any dates or cities since I'm a mind reader and already have the reservation in my crystal ball before you can tell me.<br />
Besides all above; I smile, empathize, sympathize, console, cajole, up-sell, down-sell, cross-sell, perform, sing, dance, make coffee and fix the printer..................<br />
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I am your travel agent!<br />
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