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June 20th 4:56pm

Guess I'm the average girl. i'm not extremely skinny nor am i fat. Im not gorgeous but I'm not ugly. Just average...I have average days and average questions. My question for today is: Is it Lust that leads to Love or Love that leads to Lust? and Is that necessarily a bad thing?

We always say that it's either one or the other. I find though that I have moments of either extreme lust or love. Sometimes it seems that they cancel each other out but is that true? Does it matter how much you lust after someone if you truly love them?
I thought that it didn't but then when you question if you love them because of it, it becomes very painful and rather confusing. You feel guilty inside... and that is not right.
Once a very smart person said "It's the attraction that's catches your eye initially but there's nothing if you can't love them" I'm not exactly sure if that's how it goes but I'm sure that one can't go without the other...
So does lust really lead to love like they say or does love lead to lust? Either leads to confusion and trying to figure out which one really fills your heart just hurts...it'd be horrible to find out you simply lust? But in the end is it better to just find out now and not later?

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