I was sitting in a car listening to the radio news when I heard about “the best ages to get married” the reporter said “Females are settling down at the age of 28 while Males are settling down at the age of 36” that is because they want to get a great job making their parents pleased. I found that true in today’s society, because if you do want to settle down you must have a degree, a great paying job, and a lover. But I know finding your soul-mate is durable that’s why you date one after the other even if it is frustrating and challenging. But at the long run you will eventually find someone special even if it is a long- distance relationship. Looking for someone is aggravating like when you’re looking for your favorite or even lucky item(s) and you don’t find it so you just give up and when you do you see it there in front of you and your like “darn!! How come I haven’t seen it? Will that’s because when you don’t put so much effort in finding something it slams you in the face later on. I have had relationships with guys if I remember correctly my shorts relationship was in three weeks and my longest relationship was about a year. “Yes” I am saying “was” because that was in the past, lets just say it didn’t work out - no details. But at those rough times I thought the typical words “all guys are jerks”, and I know that is not true. Relationship takes time so don’t spin that “I am not good enough” or “I was just destined to be alone” in your mind. That’s what leads many people-teens or adults to commit suicide because of the disasters relationship their in or face.
I am just saying “life doesn’t suck and you don’t have to die” just enjoy life and date even if you do grow old and can’t find a person you love. Have relationships even if it is bad or good because in the long-term you are meant to be with someone special. Oh yea and who says you can’t do what you want.. you can if you are benefiting from it. heart dramallama heart
 undercoverB18 · Fri Feb 16, 2007 @ 02:35pm · 0 Comments |
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