You all just don't get it do you? You really don't? Well for those who are wondering and are completely clueless, I guess I'll just fill you all in. And after I do, I don't want any stupid pms with the lines, "whats wrong?" "im sorry" "i love you" "why?" "can i help?" NONE OF THESE GOT IT?
If you've been wanting to know whats wrong with me, then I'm sure this entire thing will open your eyes and give you just a little insight on how I'm feeling. Here's the deal, hope your ready for some cold hard truth and my feelings...
1. I don't want anymore people saying that they love me. Because if you did, you wouldn't put me through the things you do. Some of the things can be put of as meaningless gestures and mistakes, and I understand that. But when you tell someone that you truly love them and you want to have a shot with them, you don't lead them on to believe that something could actually happen. If you're not serious or sure then don't say the words. Your uncertainty with something like claiming love is going to end up really hurting someone. And hell, I've been on the receiving end of that way too many times. I'm sick of opening my heart to people, telling them I truly love them and I'd do anything for them, and then them turning around and ending up with another broken heart. Here's the point, don't say you love someone if you don't mean it.
2. I'm not a backup girlfriend, don't treat me like it. If your with someone and you tell me that you love me and not the person you're with at the time, then break up with that person. Don't try to lead me on when you really have no intent of being with me.
3. I don't want to be lied to anymore. If you need to tell me something, you tell me straight out and honest. Lying to me only makes it worse because I will always find the truth in your lies and you will lose my trust completely. Be honest with me, even if I don't want to hear what you need to say, you should respect me enough to tell me up front.
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1. I agree. I feel like the word "love" has been thrown around way too much and it's starting to lose its meaning. I'm sorry you have those kinds of people in your life. I suppose I should be a little more thankful for the few people that said they loved me. At least they meant it.
2. Wow... I know how that feels. It happens far too often. Gives me sociopath thoughts.
3. I find that it is a good idea to lie about something’s. By that, I mean "white lies" are acceptable. I could have saved myself a lot of grief if I had not opened my big mouth. On the other hand, it's a really good idea to tell the truth. Some people just know the meaning of "selective".