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Today, I'm going to open up an interesting topic

Bi's.

What people don't understand is that just because a girl is bi doesn't mean she automaticaly likes a random girl she just meets. She may think: damn, that girl is smokin'! But really, that's quite normal. Don't other girls size each other up? Same thing! Anyway, it takes a while for a girl to realize she likes another girl. It's not instant.
For example: I found out I liked a girl after she wanted to talk to me more. I found out more about her and began to like her. If a girl likes another girl, she doesn't like them because of what's on the outside, like guys, but what their personality is like. Also, since girls are more passionate and understanding than most guys, their relationships don't revolve around heavy touching or showing off, it's about loving and caring about each other.
One more thing: Bi girls are usually more stressed from both guys and girls, so don't try to make things harder for them by chritisizing them for something they can't help. Be understanding and help them pull through their problems.
I wrote this from personal experience. My life is pretty twisted because of me being bi, but I'm trying to pull through. If anyone wants to chritisize me about it, go ahead, you're only going to get yourself worked up over nothing, because I don't care what others have to say. I say ******** THEM!!! If anyone can help me, however, please do. I need all the advice I can get...