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What makes it so that love can totally change a person?
Is it really that big of a deal?
It is safe to say I have never been in love. I got close once, but I pulled away. It was too intimidating an emotion to deal with at the time.
When someone is in love, their whole personality can change. They give more, are more open minded, care less about other's negativity.
When someone looses the one they love, they can become rotten and depressed. They become selfish and may never love agian.
What is it about love that has such a huge effect on every person it touches? Many have said their life wasn't complete before they found love.
Really?
I think people focus too much on love sometimes. You can live your life without love, and you can enjoy life while you have love, and you can find love more than once with more than on individual.