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Say that they have a 'Gaia Boyfriend' or an 'Internet Boyfriend'
They're still your freaking boyfriend.
I mean, what does it matter how you met them?
Does that make them less important?
Just because they can't feel you up?

I just saw something like;;

'i know we are like going out on gaia but i have a crush in real life. lol. we can still go out though.'

How is that funny at all?
Is it right for us as human beings to treat people less because we can't touch them?
If you like someone in real life more than you like your 'Gaia boyfriend', then dump him. It's not fair to him to tell him that you like someone else, but, 'hey! I don't want to dump you, so you'll have to deal with it! Sorry!'
It's. Not. Right.

Maybe, I'm overly sensitive about it, because I've been on the receiving end. And, it's no funny. If somebody doesn't want to be with me, then I want them to just tell me.

I hate how people think you can date two people because they don't know each other, or one's online and one's in real life.

'Oh, but real life and online are different!'

So are the definitions of a whore and a slut.
Should I tell you which one dating two guys makes you?
It's not right
and it's not fair.
To either of the guys.
So, shut the hell up and deal with the facts.

{PS Yes. This is a 'touchy subject' for me. And it completely infuriates me when I see it. Besides;; I was due for a new rant ;3}