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I've learned something new today....actually, it should be " I've relearned something today that was new to me before."

If one is in a disscusion about people and relationships, be it 'bisexual, asexual, or heterosexual' the safest thing to do if your going to say something is usually to not say anything. Say something if you know your not going to offend anyone or get on anyones bad side. If you do offend someone, either somehow talk your way out of it, if you can, or politly admit that you are wrong or they are wrong through facts, non-harsh words or any other way you can think of.
I've actually seen someone talk their way out of an unpleasent situation with deliberate lies and half-truths all with a straight face. That same person was also gay.

I've never really understood the 'whys' and the 'whatfores' in that of the whole "liking someone of the same gender as you are", is wrong. I'm not naive if anybody thinks I am, but that is dependant on your views in life, the way you were brought up, my opinions, open-mindedness.
People that "like somebody of the same gender that they are" have fabulous tastes. Or at least the ones I know and met or that my friends know and met. I read manga and so do my friends outside of Gaia. We are animefans, mangaaddicts, crazy, weird, goth, emo, narutards, and the like. I currently have no idea if any of them are currently turned but I do know that a few talk of the anatomy freely.

Anyways, I'm getting off topic here.
Bottom line, if you grow up with an eccentric family, you become eccentric yourself. When I say family, I don't meen those "cheery, happy-go-lucky, all-is-lovely, quaint, quiet families. I meen the ones that appear in dramas, comics, fiction, sometimes soap-operas even.

If anyone should ask, I come from such a family myself, I live in New York City.