About

Apanthropist.

I'm 40-something, been married since March 2OO3, and sprogged two now-teens. I have been a Gaian since February 2OO4. You may see me out in the GCD or event forums, but I mostly lurk and play with my avatars now.

I herd Teal Deer and step on toes. It's not intentional; I'm direct and can not guess every way someone can choose to "read between the lines." If I didn't directly say it, it wasn't what I meant. Period.

If you need to know more about me:

❥ I am a genderfluid enbie. They/her/sir is fine to use for me.
❥ I have mauve hair (don't care).
❥ I am small, cute, and grumpy as ********.
❥ I have one super sweet old lady Shiba Inu.
❥ I am crafty and always making something with my hands.
❥ My comfort reads/watches are horror.
❥ I am a beta reader for a fairly well-known indie romance author and read a lot of smut in my free time. The world is trash; I have to enjoy something.
❥ I have a Washi Tape, fountain pen, and planner obsession—love stationary/office supplies. They were my first love. I started collecting pencils when I was 4.
❥ No anime or manga will ever replace Sailor Moon for me.
❥ I do not feel guilty about the lengths I go to make avatars here. Yes—I do enjoy making endless recolors of that cat ear and tail set.
❥ My favorite color schemes on Gaia are Off-chrome, Withered, Iridescent, Stagony/Cursed, most muted palettes, and anything that uses Miori's neutral palette.
❥ I am unapologetic about my love of "animal girl" avatars.
❥ I have celiac.
❥ As of August 2023, I am a blood cancer survivor.


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UPDATE: I obtained my Bunny Slippers on 20 October 2006 after more then 2 1/2 years of questing! Thank you to everyone who helped; I couldn't have done it without you. ♥

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I do not accept random friends requests: I usually do not accept them after talking to you once or twice either. I'm not into collecting friends and being a lot older than the main userbase can make things complicated in a way I wish to avoid.