Anywhere really. I live in a small town so there isn't a big selection of stores. There is a mall about 45min away that has an Old Navy and a American Eagle, at best. Old Navy has had some nice androgynous clothes for women lately and American Eagle has some nice clothes in the men's section that fit nicely.
I tend to use the ladies room but i have used the men's room when there was a line. I don't get looks when I go in the men's room however. Probably because I'm very boyish.
It's okay! It's actually pretty exciting having someone take interest in it.
I really got lucky when it came to my friends. By that point I was so comfortable around them that they just saw me as "one of the guys" or the girls tease me and ask me if I'll be their husband now. it didn't surprise any of them though. People often mistake my gender when in public and when I react to being called sir or anything male it kind of throws people off. Bathrooms are amusing sometimes. I do get the occasional redneck saying "what the ********?" or looking at me like I'm some crazy thing they can't comprehend but I'm so comfortable that I just laugh about it.
Last year some time. I was out as a lesbian since I was 15/16 but I didn't fully understand my gender queer/fluid feelings until I was in a serious relationship.
Speaking of pubes that reminds me of a story lol, me my cousin and my mom (my mom is also a ginger) were talking about pubes. When we said our pubes were red she started freaking out and said "What?! I thought everyone's pubes were black!" and we said back "We thought everyone's pubes matched their hair!". Funny stuff.
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