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Love.
What’s the first thing you recall when you hear the word Love? Loving could really be tricky, saddening, and unfair but still people tend to be involved in it.. maybe that’s just how we’re supposed to be. I’ts the bittersweet truth, in contrary; if you love someone, you should never hesitate and leave that awful question in your head.. the What if question. What if i did this? done that? that question will haunt you. I know now you’re saying that it’s just easy for me to say this but it is hard to do.. Let’s face the truth; It is better to be rejected than to be wallowing in self pity because you didn’t even tried. Once you get involved in a relationship, whether you like it or not; you’ll face tons, i mean a whole lot’a problems. It can’t be helped, the only thing you could do is STAY together and work things out. One should never and i mean NEVER speak of or suggest a break up when your relationship is on the rocks. I believe that you should love your girlfriend/boyfriend more than anything else. (just correct me if im wrong but that’s how i love.) It’s a bit risky but it’s better than being told that you didn’t love with all you can. If your relationship end, it will surely HURT a lot and there’s no doubt about it. I don’t believe it when people say ‘maybe you’re not really meant for each other.‘ It’s just that both of you cared and loved but it still not enough to make you stay together. That’s the awful truth that you have to face. Sometimes love isn’t really enough. Do anything and everything you could to save the relationship but you should know when to give up and when to move on. I know it’s not that easy to do but trust me there always comes a time to say to yourself “I’ve enjoyed it while it lasted but I think it’s time to let go.”