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beauty....
You watch tv, or magasins, you see models and you wounder... "Why can't I look like that! Why am I the way I am!" Just compairing yourself to them... but thats the thing about media, the models on the magasin cover is obviously photoshoped, but thats the thing... right? the media can distort our views of beauty.
By compairing yourself to someone else, its probably the worst thing you can do, because, for starters, beauty cannot be mesured. You cannot put beauty on a scale. People will say, "oh I'm not pretty enough"...then... what is pretty? I think everybody could look pretty. Dressing up, do there hair, nice make up... pretty is something you can see. But beauty... beauty is different. Beauty can only be seen in the heart, and not on the face. I know this sounds a little cheesy, but hear me out. Theres a quote... the most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen it can only be felt in the heart... the difference between pretty and beauty is pretty is temporal its something thats gonna fade over time. But beauty... is eternal.
You are who you are, and you will never be someone else. You can try as hard as you can, you'll never be that person who you work with, or see in the magazins or on tv. You will always be you. You may try to get her hair style, dress up like her, but you will always be you.
Simply put if you were just trying to be someone else... you just waisted the person you are.
People with low self esteem, what they do, is they tend to pick out all the bad things about them selves and and very often in other people aswell. So really just dragging them down, to make themselves feel better. And they may think "ah I feel a lot better dragging this person down with me, but in reality, its acctually just pushing themselves down deeper. So deep and dark that this person can acctually becaume lost with in themselvs.
So don't be so hard on yourself, when someone calls you ugly. Because that personne who's saying it is doing a very ugly thing themselves. Having an ugly soul, they have an ugly perpose, and that purpose is to hurt you.
Have dignity, instead of responding, just turn away. No make up makes you more or less beautiful, what makes you beautifull is your personality, your morals your values, and... thats the thing... no body can acctually take this away from you. Why do we get so caught up with these people's words, what other people think? when really this shouldn't matter to you at all, these people shouldn't mean anything to you.... why do you believe them? Really... take the time to just stop... stop trying to be perfect, and try more to be yourself. Beacause no body can be perfect...all the celebraties you see on tv, all the models, non of them are perfect. All your flaws come together to make you, and your gonna spend the rest of your life with you! So why not love yourself?
Live life for yourself, and not for the others who try to put you down. Because at the end of the day, you'll just be living there misreable lives. So just try to live life being happy, being kind, being helpful, doing what you love most. When your happy, this is when your at your most beautiful state. And just try to see how your family and friends veiw you. I know that sometimes its hard to step out of your own shoes... but really try.
And remember that beauty is just like ugliness.... it cannot be concealed... no make up, no cloths, nothing can conseal weither your beautifull or ugly.... so if none of them can be hidden... then .... which one would you rather be?
Life is to short to just focus on your physical features, or even somebody elses. You cannot measure beauty, because you might not like something about yourself, but it can be a feature that somebody really loves about you. You would just be so surprised, about what your family your friends, and your loved ones, will love most about you.
If you want to have beautifull eyes, try to see the best in people. try to see the best in everything. If you want to have beautiful lips, try to only speak kind and encouraging words, If you want to have beatiful ears then, try to listen to your own body more, listen to what should matter most, instead of what other people say about you.
so now that were clear about what is pretty and beautiful.. which one would you rather be? Instead of putting other people or yourself down... why not flatter yourself?
Kai_Chi · Fri Sep 03, 2010 @ 04:20am · 0 Comments |
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