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scorpio females
scorpio females


The Scorpio female is an independent soul. She possesses a forbidding, keep-your-distance manner that often hides a secretive and sensitive heart. This is a woman who will risk all for love and not count the cost, but can become bitterly disappointed if her judgment is proved wrong. Undeniably romantic by nature, she demands the near-impossible of those she loves. However, this female is quick to assess personalities and situations, able to put her finger on the crux of a question or circumstance immediately, seeing through all the dross, ignoring the veneer and getting to the truth. In addition, this woman is often at least a little psychic. She will make a number of good friends, usually keeping them all her life, and her sympathy and understanding are extended to all who come in contact with her. Still, the woman ruled by Scorpio does make for a formidable enemy. She rarely creates animosity willingly, but is sometimes driven into situations that make her the center of some manifestation of jealousy. The contradiction of the Scorpio female character is rather puzzling to some people and endlessly fascinating to others. Outwardly, this always seems to be a relatively selfish woman who gives the appearance of self-centeredness in her concentration on personal affairs and the affairs of loved ones. Still, she can be capable of incredible self-sacrifice. In essence, no two acquaintances will ever view this female in the same manner for she will present a different facet of her personality to each one. As a sweetheart, the Scorpio female is exciting. As a life partner, she is appealing in her determination to be the best possible companion. As a mother, she will be both understanding and disciplinary.

Basically an old-fashioned individual, the woman ruled by Scorpio is loyal and courageous. She enjoys responsibility and is very capable. With a great love of luxury, she possesses considerable taste in home furnishings and other aesthetics. The difference in the atmosphere will very much depend on this female's intensity of feelings. She is a blunt and fearless character, doing everything passionately from the depths of her heart. Her devotion to loved ones is whole-hearted and can almost verge upon idolization at times. Rarely shy by nature, the Scorpio woman has a very healthy appetite for the physical aspect of a romantic relationship.
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scorpio second decan


The Second Decan of Scorpio is also known as the Pisces Decante and the "Week of Depth." The influence of Neptune (this Decan's secondary ruling Planet) may prompt these talented natives to seek an escape courtesy of some form of addiction...drugs or gambling, for example. The heart here is very tender and needs careful handling. This is an individual who will search for a soul mate until one is found. However, he or she will need to be very careful in the choice of friends and companions, or suffer the consequences. Medicine and healing arts are perfect for those governed by this Decanate. In addition, it is crucial that they receive unconditional love and have a loyal, loving mate who will reinforce self-esteem. Although driven, those ruled by this Decante possess a moderating streak of charity and self-sacrifice. They seek job satisfaction above prestige. Arousing and mysterious, empathetic and faith-inspiring, these persons make for exceptional sweethearts and life-partners, which may be due in part to their love of (and indulgance in) sexual fantasies. The motto of the Second Decan of Scorpio is "Transmutation."

The constellation associated with this Decan is Ara the Altar. The original Latin name of this constellation was Ara Centauri or Altar of the Centaur Chiron, who was believed to the the most wise creature on Earth. Named in honor of this half-man/half-horse Ara was the altar upon which Chiron sacrificed Lupus the Wolf. According to one Greek legend, when Zeus had gathered allies for theTitan War, they made sacrifices on an Altar constructed by the Cyclopes to pledge their alliegance. In memorial, Zeus placed the Altar among the stars as the constellation Ara. The rising of its stars heralded the storms of late Autumn. Ara has also been referred to as the Altar of Dionysus, the Altar built by Noah after the Flood, the Altar built by Moses, and even the Altar that once resided in Solomon's Temple. Basically, this constellation commemorates the Altar on which sacrifices were made to the Gods in both Greek and Roman times.
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element water in scorpio


Scorpio is governed by the Element of Water...an Element it shares with the Signs of Cancer and Pisces. Water is also the ruler of the Fourth, Eighth and Twelfth Houses of the Zodiac. Water is linked to emotion and the subconscious. Believed by many to be the strongest and most enduring Element, Water is associated with love, purification, intuition, compassion, family, mysteries of the self and psychic ability. In a physical sense, all life is dependent upon Water and it is symbolic of the universal womb, the Great Mother, birth and fertility. This Element is equally life-giving and life-destroying...used to cleanse or purify in both a physical and psychic sense. Water is able to adopt many forms...it can be liquid or gaseous (as in steam) or even frozen...it can be as gentle as a tiny babbling brook or as violent as a thundering tidal wave. Water is indicative of the emotional response to a situation, as well as being sensitive and inspiring of intuition. This Element remembers the past and foresees the future. It is said to correspond to the emotional side of an individual's nature...humans being equally as changeable, subtle and able to infliltrate as is Water itself. Water natives possess the ability to gauge moods, sense the atmosphere of an environment and act accordingly. The approach of these individuals is based upon emotion, where experience is registered through feelings and evaluated by the emotional responses made to such feelings. This Element also describes what is known as instinct...or the part of an individual which is animal and includes the workings of the body which are outside the bounds of willpower...digestion, heartbeat and the instincts of survival and procreation, for example. The traditional symbol for Water is a triangle pointing downward.

Water individuals tend to feel things very deeply but remain emotionally reserved, regardless what outward impression may be given. However, still waters do run deep and there is a certain mystery which has always been associated with Water Signs. Such subjects are prone to fall silent or become withdrawn when they are attempting to sort things out, and it usually takes quite some time for others to become well-acquainted with those ruled by this Element since Water natives tend to reveal themselves very slowly. Water Signs realize that their intense emotions hold tremendous power and are apt to handle their feelings with extreme care. In love, water signs "fall" wholeheartedly and are more than generous with their devotion. Being sensitive, they are highly romantic...even sentimental. Often blessed with psychic powers, those governed by Water have the ability to read the true intentions of others by simply tuning-in to gestures and body language. Those ruled by Water will always trust actions more than they trust the spoken word. This Element is the universal solvent, cleansing and sustaining life on earth, breaking down substances, dissolving them and then taking on their qualities. In much the same way, a Water Sign native will listen to the problems of others and then take on those problems as though they were his or her own. This ability to sympathize and empathize is a truly wonderful trait and individuals governed by Water offer those in need their full attention, a shoulder to cry on and some excellent advice. Because Water Signs give of themselves so readily, it is necessary for them to have regular time alone in order to regain their center.

The Element of Water is said to rule the soul and possess a strong aversion to being confined. Thus, those who fall under its influence will often assert their immense desire for freedom...no matter how gently such may be expressed. Water Signs will be imaginative and very creative and their observations regarding the human condition quite often inspire masterpieces of painting, music, photography, literature or dance. Working in a studio or a small self-employed business (usually connected to the creative arts) holds much appeal for those ruled by Water, although their on-target intuition frequently assures success in financial areas also. Water natives are intuitive, sensitive and tend to feel more intensely than those born under the other three Elemental jurisdictions. These are emotional and nurturing souls who, somewhat like a river, "run deep." Actions are usually based on sense rather than logic or intellect. Basically, Water Signs are concerned with compassion and understanding, since the receptive talent of such individuals is extraordinarily high. Those governed by this Element are able to absorb the feelings of those around them, process the information and then put forth a plan or solution which will be conscientious to all. Since Water Signs sense the feelings of others and are acutely aware of their surroundings on an emotional level, they tend to live in a somewhat spiritual world where everything and anything can become sacred. Thus, given such a protective and nurturing nature, Water natives frequently find it difficult to draw the line between what they should care about and what they should leave alone.

The major problem of those ruled by Water is their sensitivity. They are prone to break under stress if their sensitivity cannot be controlled and may seek escape through drugs, alcohol or some other type of addiction. These subjects also have a tendency to harbor grudges due to this same lack of control. Nevertheless, for the most part, the influence of Water manifests itself in an artistic manner, with those under its influence desirous of aesthetic beauty...and a wish that everyone be happy as a result of that beauty. Yet, much like still water can become stagnant, Water individuals who are inactive are not at their best. They feel most fulfilled when they are helping others...something they are usually able to accomplish in an enchanting, considerate and even romantic fashion. On the negative side, there is a tendency for those who fall under the jurisdiction of this Element to brood. They are susceptible to mood swings and, at their worst, can grow to be self-indulgent, controlling and hostage to something of a fantasy world. Of all the Signs, those ruled by Water are able to see things most clearly. In short, they are the psychics of the Zodiac...ones who prefer to specialize in private relationships. Individuals who fall under the jurisdiction of Water are fluidly-feeling souls and their range of dispositions moves readily from "ice storm" to "placid river" to "hot steam." These natives adore the comforts of home and family and are, in general, strongly nurturing of anything that has life. With compassionate instincts, the Water subject is drawn to care for whomever or whatever appears to be weak, defective or on the "losing side."
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scorpio quality


As a Water Sign with Fixed Quality, Scorpio natives are fixated upon the emotional issues around shared values. Indeed, they are prone to carry the concept of sharing into the realm of intimacy and emotion. Scorpio deals intimately with sex and death. Just as these two subjects represent two ends of the life spectrum, so does Scorpio go to extremes. The Sign in and of itself holds extremes...able to act as a pillar of strength one minute and then be treacherous as quicksand the next. It is inherent in the Scorpio nature to get to the bottom of things and find the root cause. When such is accomplished...as it will surely be...then they will destroy the cause. Scorpio natives take no halfway measures in providing a cure or resolving a problem. To these individuals, the problem must be elimination so it can never return and be a pestilence. Consequently, Scorpio has a predisposition toward dealing out death. Regardless of how close a person may be to a native of this Sign, there will always be secrets and those governed by Scorpio will always hold back a part of themselves. An integral part of the Scorpio personality is to be resourceful...and to keep a part of themselves in reserve.
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love compatibility


Within every native of Scorpio, there is an intense sexuality and smoldering sensuality. Here, there is a profound depth and attraction to love and what accompanies love in life. Those ruled by Scorpio are passionate when they invest their feelings and things are never boring with a Scorpio sweetheart. They thrive best when they feel secure and stable within a relationship, enjoying the physical gifts of being in love as much as they enjoy the emotional ones. The mates of Scorpio individuals will never fathom what is on the mind of their partners since this Sign is essentially...and constantly...mysterious by nature. The one exception to this is when a Scorpio native is engaging in expression through his or her passion. These are watchful, quiet and dedicated souls who can be as protective of the ones they love as they are of their own vulnerable emotions and feelings. The Scorpio subject tends to be dominate in any relationship since feeling in control is one of the ways in which he or she can invest the heart. Although there is a notorious jealous streak here, accompanied by a deep-rooted possessiveness, the Scorpio native is capable of an unequaled level of trust and faith in terms of love and romance. Those who fall under the jurisdiction of this Zodiac Sign are usually unafraid to face either life or death and such fearlessness translates into sexual expression. They can reach the highest highs or the lowest lows in whatever passion they pursue and they are the most intense, uninhibited and dynamic individuals of the Zodiac in terms of physical intimacy.

Those who fall under the jurisdiction of Scorpio possess an electrifying magnetism that tends to draw partners into their charmed circle. Not everyone is prone to recognize the attraction at first since Scorpio natives tend to hide their light under a bushel. These are souls who are far from light-hearted in love...save in inspired flashes...because they reach for the stars, expecting the highest ecstasy from their emotional lives. Unfortunately, individuals governed by this Sign are bitterly disappointed when this falls short of their dreams. The Scorpio impact on a potential mate can be magnificent, but it will all depend on whether this native is in the mood. Still, these are not heartless or ruthless types and possess little in the way of dalliance skills. Scorpio subjects desire a love affair that will give off sparks and they are deeply affected, even when only thinking about a loved one. Here, the intuition in love is highly developed and a response can be sensed in another almost immediately. Scorpio can be intensely jealous, but is one of the few who do not place too much importance on faithfulness...believing in a personal power to maintain a lifetime hold over a mate. Past sweethearts probably never forget a Scorpio love interest or the effect such a relationship had on their lives. Utterly sincere in their determination to make a success of a long-term committment, individuals governed by Scorpio want to be "in love" all their lives.

Those governed by Scorpio prefer a partner who can help him or her obtain what is truly desired. Indeed, Scorpio natives ordinarily expect measurable results and benefits from any and all relationships/associations. At times, the rather demanding nature of this Sign can become distasteful, but it is up to the individual to decide whether a partnership with Scorpio will be worth all the effort and trouble. Scorpio natives tend to be rather pleased if others understand, approve and perhaps even appreciate the fact that they do possess somewhat fixed ideas and opinions regarding most matters. Also well appreciated will be the further realization that Scorpio individuals cannot tolerate anyone hounding them to change. Basically, they are prone to adore partners who are especially patient. It should never be forgotten that in the romantic arena, the physical aspect of any relationship will be vitally important to those governed by this Sign. Natives of Scorpio do not care for individuals who lack determination and direction, believing that it is necessary to have a definite and clear-cut goal regarding what is wanted from life. Most people ruled by Scorpio take their own goals and turn them into burning desires. Essentially, these are strongly desire-motivated individuals...ones who are more than a little put out by anyone who dares to criticize them for seeking fulfillment of their aims in life.

When it comes to long term commitments, the Scorpio native requires solid security without feeling that his or her partner is a doormat. This tends to be a precarious balance that is only learned over the course of time. The longer a Scorpio individual is in a relationship, then the more secure that relationship is prone to become. These are naturally suspicious souls (feeling and seeing things that most of the general population work to ignore) and such depth is accompanied by the need for some equally powerful self-protective mechanisms. Here, the insecurity and jealousy are by-products of self-preservation. The Scorpio subject likes to be in control and is very seldom found in a subservient role, unless he or she has chosen to occupy such a position. These are persons who need passionate mates...ones who can keep pace with the inherent Scorpio desire. In addition, they need partners who are capable of both maintaining a loyalty and their own sense of individuality. This is of paramount importance if the relationship is to be balanced. Those governed by this Zodiac Sign are essentially homebodies, feeling most comfortable when they are within their own domains. They despise being surprised, embarrassed or humiliated and will retaliate with incredible swiftness and strength. This is a Sign capable of amazing turn-around and growth. In short, the Scorpio powers of rejuvenation...either physical, spiritual or emotional...should never be underestimated.
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idk I just felt like posting my sign stuff on here i think its so interesting and very ACCURATE which is a bit scary to me....



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