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Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 6:00 am
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This has been a fixation of mine ever since I was a little boy, I was jealous of other peoples relationships I witnessed because I never formed any. I wasn't a shy kid, I was actually more outgoing and exstatic, which I guess was awkward for some people.
19 years in, almost 20, and i'm still not involved in a relationship. I can't really figure out why, and it causes me the most distress in my life. I was hoping the friendly advice of some Scadians could help me break out of my bad luck.
Physically, Im fairly tall, 5'11", I eat like a bird and I exercise plenty (I unload trucks for a living) and Im a heavy fighter, so I have good solid muscles. I have, in my own description, a kind face. I like my nose, I have brown hair, green eyes, and usually keep a well trimmed beard and moustache. I have good hygiene, and I dress well most of the time.
As for my personality, I speak clearly and cleanly, I'm verbose, with a generous knowledge of the english language. I've dabbled in poetry of many types, written stories, and songs. I play the pipe organ, respect and deeply love both my father, and mother. I make an honest living doing hard work, and I'm a friendly guy (As Llelwyn will tell you!) I like to think I can be sexy, and i'm definately passionate.
I can speak in a Scottish accent, I have a wordly mind and I keep up to date on current events, I drive and pay for my own vehicle, and I have plans for college in the future. I don't use drugs, and I don't steal. I was raised on chivalry by my father, who is a Knight in the S.C.A. and a former Drill Sgt in the Army.
I have a good sense of humor, I think smile And I like to express that often.
I can't really tell why im single, other than that I may be trying too hard, but to be honest, in the last year and a half, my efforts towards finding a lady have taken a drastic decline, as I've seen fit to really s**t myself off from that aspect of life, it depresses me so I've blocked it out.
Any help would be appreciated.
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Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 6:35 am
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Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 2:14 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 7:40 pm
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Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 3:15 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 6:37 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 7:15 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 8:55 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 3:53 pm
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Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 9:00 pm
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Kiddo the fox-phoenix Because people are idiots. Just go around and ask any girl you find remotely interesting out on a date. Let them know it's just a get-to-know-you kind of thing, no commitment, one date only type deal. And see what happens. Expect lots of rejections and losers. Frankly, there aren't enough guys asking girls out in our age-group. I think the lot of us need to take a nice healthy dope-slap to the back of the head to get ourselves out of this "2 dates = practically engaged" bullshit. Sorry. Personal rant of mine. Anyways, don't look for lasting relationships right off the bat - that scares girls off faster than anything else - but just look for someone you enjoy being with and can relax and feel normal around. Worry about the rest later. Also, don't think of yourself as a 'catch'. I remember one guy that all he did was bewail how females weren't attracted to him and how much he wanted a relationship like he was ENTITLED to one. The girls around him all felt like he looked at us like objects as a result and hated his guts, myself included. (I think he's the only one my roomies didn't call me off on when I threatened to beat him up) So don't ever think females should be going out with you because that attitude may unconciously influence how you act. Remember, female intuition can be very accurate sometimes and pick up on the slightest stuff.
YES.
Agreed.
I dated a gentle (who I'll be thankful for for intro'ing me to the Society) who was this way, and even though he swore he wasn't a catch, he also had a way about him that he knew that he could out think anyone.
And that I had a problem with.
That, and he didn't respect what I believed in, and I had an issue with that, too.
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