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 Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 4:55 pm
I dated and had sex with a guy whom I thought was my age. Just to find out he is 14 while I'm 16. Should I date him still?
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Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 5:01 pm
i'm not shure but,he's 14 man, i wouldn't do that.your 16.find someone your own age. do you like him?
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Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 5:06 pm
I don't see any problems with that, as long as you like him.
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Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 5:22 pm
i say leave he lied about his age, and in the us you cant date any one 2 years yonger/older then you between the ages of 16-18 as for the sex as long as you did not get pregnet or get some form of STD its allright omiting the leagul side of it
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Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 7:48 pm
Legally? Not the safest thing to do, unless you live in Hawaii.
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Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 8:38 pm
i agree with athiel i mean its cool i mean it isn't a hugh gap in age in fact you really couldn't call that a gap
nothing is illegal unless you get caught ya know
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Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 9:15 pm
Honestly, it all depends on your state laws, depending on the legality of it.
Some allow 14, others 15-18...it just all depends.
Now, he lied about his age.....question is,
Did he do this just to have sex with you, or he really likes you and thought it was the only way you would date him.
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 10:18 am
Kinky. Hope you had fun! But it really is a thing to research the legality of. Going to jail for having sex is not cool.
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 10:33 am
Heres what you do:
step one: kick his a**. and really beat the s**t out of him.
step two: tell him its for lieing to you, and there is a thing called trust that should never be broken.
step three: go find someone whos not looking to get in your pants.
Now i dont know the hole story but so far..........thats what it seems like.
lying of age is still lying.
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 11:03 am
Well if he started out the relationship lying to you do you really want to date him?
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 11:55 am
Age doesn't matter.
But if he lied about his age, then that's kinda sick. Unless he did it because he really wanted to know you better and confessed his age, then it depends.
If you like him enough, then I say go for it.
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 12:04 pm
Well, this is just how I see it.
I'd never in a million years date anyone younger then me. But that's just me.
It's your decision.
He did lie to you...
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 12:22 pm
Oh my! I was unaware of the seemingly strict and rather silly laws of which you all speak.
Here in Sweden (as far as I know) no one gives a s**t, as long as it's not about a 50 year old guy "gets" a 12 year old girl...^^
Aren't we liberal?
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 12:44 pm
I would suggest perhaps knowing all about the other person before sleeping with them?
I don't see a problem with a two year age difference. My boyfriend and I are about three years apart.
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