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Mr Jes

PostPosted: Tue Jul 29, 2014 8:57 pm


Bet that title got your attention did it? wink

Well I returned to Gaia after a year to find the market absolute s**t and to discover that my guild had been completely abandoned. In addition to trying to find active posters again for it I have also found out that I've gotten a job close to where my girlfriend leaves in Japan and I'm debating whether or not to tell her now while she's still in the middle of exams or wait until she's in the states next week so we can celebrate are now (last) American trip together. sweatdrop

What should I do?
PostPosted: Tue Jul 29, 2014 9:42 pm


Wait a bit, bide your time, write some rough drafts on what you're going to say, and maybe call some folks and arrange a big thing about it; or don't, I know nothin' 'bout ya'll and if ya'll like big commotions or not. Plus ya' don't want to get her jimbobs rockabillied during test times; I ain't know one cat who can't take any outside pressure during series of tests.


Hell, this one cat I knew had her boyfriend ask if he could move in with her during finals and poor thing was damn near catatonic. Took her father damn near 7 hours of calming and reassuring to bring her back to a functioning level. Still a blubbering mess afterwards. Passed without incident, though. And they're still together. Don't know what it is with ya'll cats and those tests; my kin and I never got any anxiety during testing and we all did...


Well.

Supar Ingimon

Toxic Fatcat


Hypnotic Hyena

Fluffy Loiterer

PostPosted: Tue Jul 29, 2014 11:45 pm


So welcome back and all. I've been back for a couple of months now and I still haven't quite adjusted to it all I must say.

I can't really say how active the guild is these days compared to the way it was before, because I didn't really go to the other parts of the guild besides the games one because it was hard to keep up with which threads were active and which ones I was just bringing back from the dead.

Anyways, I'm finding the rest of the post a bit hard to follow. You're getting a job close to where she lives? Or you're getting a job close to the time she leaves for Japan?
PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 12:16 am


Mr Jes

well, you could wait for her to finish her exams (you don't want to ruin her focus do you? haha) then you have two choices there mate,
one is to tell her after the exams or celebrate your last American trip as you say.

Its all on how you deliver it to her smile go and have fun!


Copper Shenanigans
It's hard to keep up with what's happening to the gaia economy right now and as you can see, its plain B.S hahahah but anyway, welcome back smile

siophaooo

Mythical Giver


Mr Jes

PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 8:28 am


Supar Ingimon


Yeah and if that wasn't all there was, she's having some trouble with finding a balance with studying, being an adviser to the international students (she's living in the same dorm as them for a year) and being the leader of her club for this year. She's got to worry about her internship in a few months too if this all wasn't bad enough. sweatdrop

Copper Shenanigans

I can't really say how active the guild is these days compared to the way it was before, because I didn't really go to the other parts of the guild besides the games one because it was hard to keep up with which threads were active and which ones I was just bringing back from the dead.

Anyways, I'm finding the rest of the post a bit hard to follow. You're getting a job close to where she lives? Or you're getting a job close to the time she leaves for Japan?

lol Me either. I mostly just lurked between here and a few guilds I was in before I ultimately went inactive for year due to a bunch of stuff. Didn't really post much if at all. xp

Sorry if my post is hard to follow. I wrote it last night pretty late and forgot to properly proofread before I posted. I'm getting a job that's close t where she lives in Japan. I'll be living in same prefecture as here, but whether or not I'll be just thirty minutes away or an hour is a completely different story. I'm still waiting for them to tell me when to get there and which branch school I'll be posted at.

Andouzen

well, you could wait for her to finish her exams (you don't want to ruin her focus do you? haha) then you have two choices there mate,
one is to tell her after the exams or celebrate your last American trip as you say.

Its all on how you deliver it to her smile go and have fun!

I'm probably just going to wait it out and surprise her when I pick her up at the airport or at dinner next week. I'm thinking about going through the more romantic route and bringing flowers for her when she get's off the plane. The next day we're literally getting on a bus for Chicago and St. Louis so I had better be prepared. xp
PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 10:28 pm


Mr Jes


well, why don't you add something? i mean, get something else along with the flower? something she really like? or if you know a place that she really wants to visit near your state then bring her to that place as a surprise smile

siophaooo

Mythical Giver

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