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 Posted: Sat Oct 05, 2013 5:40 pm
so heres the deal:
BOY A:
i like this boy who is a year older than me, im 17 and hes 18
he has a girlfriend sadly...
ive known him for almost 7 years and every year weve been through so much shizz that a normal boy would have left me about..,
this guy is so special to me, and i love him hopelessly...
BOY B:
this boy is a year younger than me and is very attractive to me.
he likes my best female friend and she is already taken
his internet girlfriend of a year recently broke up with him and he beats himself up about it constanlty
when we talk he always asks me how my bff is or her opinion on something
it hurts because ive told him a lot that i like him and i find him to be perfect to me
yesterday(friday the 4th) he told me a lot of things and it upset me to see him on the verge of tears. i wanted to hold him against my chest like a baby and tell him that i was there for him and that id always be there.
of course i didnt cuz then hed push me away...
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!
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Posted: Sat Oct 05, 2013 6:05 pm
Ah, I can't really tell you this from experience, but I'd love to give my opinion to you. o u o
Ask yourself this: Is 'Boy A' happy? Is he genuinely happy with the girl he loves?
If you truly love him, you'd be happy for him.
You're his friend, and it sounds like you should really know this.
If you truly loved him, you'd stick around to find out if he would be truly happy, and if he isn't, and breaks up with her, then you can be there to comfort him,
you yourself having a boyfriend of yourself, or not.
Maybe then love will flourish between you two.
'Boy B': Love can be like that sometimes, and I can't understand how it must hurt you, but you have to be patient with these things. Oh my gosh If someone hasn't told you this before, drill it into your brain:
Love is more diverse than people on the planet.
It will come once, it will come twice, it will come however many times you allow it to.
You need patience. c:
It must hurt to see someone so dear to you have feelings for someone else,
but imagine how he's feeling, too.
He likes someone who is taken, and you like someone who is blind to your feelings.
You all could be in the same situation and know that love comes time, and time again, and you two could move on. I can't really tell you what to do in this situation, but to listen to your heart, and do what you believe is best. It must hurt, I know, but you are your own person, and you are beautiful, and you can find your own love for yourself, no matter what the circumstances.
Someone will come along, and you might be taken, and they might be in the same predicament. With love comes patience.
I realize I probably didn't help, but those are my thoughts and my opinions on something like this.
I don't speak from experience, but from heart.
<3
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Posted: Sat Oct 05, 2013 6:09 pm
Buttercream Belle Ah, I can't really tell you this from experience, but I'd love to give my opinion to you. o u o Ask yourself this: Is 'Boy A' happy? Is he genuinely happy with the girl he loves? If you truly love him, you'd be happy for him. You're his friend, and it sounds like you should really know this. If you truly loved him, you'd stick around to find out if he would be truly happy, and if he isn't, and breaks up with her, then you can be there to comfort him, you yourself having a boyfriend of yourself, or not. Maybe then love will flourish between you two. 'Boy B': Love can be like that sometimes, and I can't understand how it must hurt you, but you have to be patient with these things. Oh my gosh If someone hasn't told you this before, drill it into your brain: Love is more diverse than people on the planet. It will come once, it will come twice, it will come however many times you allow it to. You need patience. c: It must hurt to see someone so dear to you have feelings for someone else, but imagine how he's feeling, too. He likes someone who is taken, and you like someone who is blind to your feelings. You all could be in the same situation and know that love comes time, and time again, and you two could move on. I can't really tell you what to do in this situation, but to listen to your heart, and do what you believe is best. It must hurt, I know, but you are your own person, and you are beautiful, and you can find your own love for yourself, no matter what the circumstances. Someone will come along, and you might be taken, and they might be in the same predicament. With love comes patience. I realize I probably didn't help, but those are my thoughts and my opinions on something like this. I don't speak from experience, but from heart. <3
thank you so much
he isnt blind, he knows very well and it makes him feel guilty sometimes haha...
and BOY A is happy with his gf and im happy he can be happy...GIRL A doesnt like me cuz i told BOY A how i feel about him and he accepted it and said that hell still be here for me
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Posted: Sat Oct 05, 2013 6:19 pm
Mystressfluffy2 Buttercream Belle Ah, I can't really tell you this from experience, but I'd love to give my opinion to you. o u o Ask yourself this: Is 'Boy A' happy? Is he genuinely happy with the girl he loves? If you truly love him, you'd be happy for him. You're his friend, and it sounds like you should really know this. If you truly loved him, you'd stick around to find out if he would be truly happy, and if he isn't, and breaks up with her, then you can be there to comfort him, you yourself having a boyfriend of yourself, or not. Maybe then love will flourish between you two. 'Boy B': Love can be like that sometimes, and I can't understand how it must hurt you, but you have to be patient with these things. Oh my gosh If someone hasn't told you this before, drill it into your brain: Love is more diverse than people on the planet. It will come once, it will come twice, it will come however many times you allow it to. You need patience. c: It must hurt to see someone so dear to you have feelings for someone else, but imagine how he's feeling, too. He likes someone who is taken, and you like someone who is blind to your feelings. You all could be in the same situation and know that love comes time, and time again, and you two could move on. I can't really tell you what to do in this situation, but to listen to your heart, and do what you believe is best. It must hurt, I know, but you are your own person, and you are beautiful, and you can find your own love for yourself, no matter what the circumstances. Someone will come along, and you might be taken, and they might be in the same predicament. With love comes patience. I realize I probably didn't help, but those are my thoughts and my opinions on something like this. I don't speak from experience, but from heart. <3
thank you so much
he isnt blind, he knows very well and it makes him feel guilty sometimes haha...
and BOY A is happy with his gf and im happy he can be happy...GIRL A doesnt like me cuz i told BOY A how i feel about him and he accepted it and said that hell still be here for me
í dσ вєlíєvє ít's tєα tímє It's no problem. All girls deserve to be hopelessly in love once in their lives. c: It's for the experience, so they can tell their kids what happened, so they can help them through it! So he knows how you feel? Well, it could be eating at him, too. He could think of you as just as a friend, but that could be because he likes the other girl so much. It could be, or it couldn't be. I'm happy Boy A and you are still good friends! I hope Boy A lies down the line that his girlfriend doesn't have to get along with you, but so long as you two know each other, you should treat each other equally for the most part. I'm sure you both mean the world to him, and jealousy on the other girl's part is a nasty emotion.(If she's feeling it.) I hope she can overcome it to think of you as a friend(You sound like a nice person!) c:
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Posted: Sat Oct 05, 2013 6:22 pm
Buttercream Belle Mystressfluffy2 Buttercream Belle Ah, I can't really tell you this from experience, but I'd love to give my opinion to you. o u o Ask yourself this: Is 'Boy A' happy? Is he genuinely happy with the girl he loves? If you truly love him, you'd be happy for him. You're his friend, and it sounds like you should really know this. If you truly loved him, you'd stick around to find out if he would be truly happy, and if he isn't, and breaks up with her, then you can be there to comfort him, you yourself having a boyfriend of yourself, or not. Maybe then love will flourish between you two. 'Boy B': Love can be like that sometimes, and I can't understand how it must hurt you, but you have to be patient with these things. Oh my gosh If someone hasn't told you this before, drill it into your brain: Love is more diverse than people on the planet. It will come once, it will come twice, it will come however many times you allow it to. You need patience. c: It must hurt to see someone so dear to you have feelings for someone else, but imagine how he's feeling, too. He likes someone who is taken, and you like someone who is blind to your feelings. You all could be in the same situation and know that love comes time, and time again, and you two could move on. I can't really tell you what to do in this situation, but to listen to your heart, and do what you believe is best. It must hurt, I know, but you are your own person, and you are beautiful, and you can find your own love for yourself, no matter what the circumstances. Someone will come along, and you might be taken, and they might be in the same predicament. With love comes patience. I realize I probably didn't help, but those are my thoughts and my opinions on something like this. I don't speak from experience, but from heart. <3
thank you so much
he isnt blind, he knows very well and it makes him feel guilty sometimes haha...
and BOY A is happy with his gf and im happy he can be happy...GIRL A doesnt like me cuz i told BOY A how i feel about him and he accepted it and said that hell still be here for me
í dσ вєlíєvє ít's tєα tímє It's no problem. All girls deserve to be hopelessly in love once in their lives. c: It's for the experience, so they can tell their kids what happened, so they can help them through it! So he knows how you feel? Well, it could be eating at him, too. He could think of you as just as a friend, but that could be because he likes the other girl so much. It could be, or it couldn't be. I'm happy Boy A and you are still good friends! I hope Boy A lies down the line that his girlfriend doesn't have to get along with you, but so long as you two know each other, you should treat each other equally for the most part. I'm sure you both mean the world to him, and jealousy on the other girl's part is a nasty emotion.(If she's feeling it.) I hope she can overcome it to think of you as a friend(You sound like a nice person!) c:
BOY A tries to get us to get along, and i try to be nice to her, but when she calls me names...its just not fair...she causes BOY A emotional problems too, since she doesnt live in our town or go to the same college as BOY A, so he gets upset when she doesnt text him or tell him something
me and BOY A are know for caring/loving TOO MUCH for one thing haha, and it always bites up in the butt in the end
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Posted: Sat Oct 05, 2013 6:30 pm
Mystressfluffy2 Buttercream Belle Mystressfluffy2 Buttercream Belle Ah, I can't really tell you this from experience, but I'd love to give my opinion to you. o u o Ask yourself this: Is 'Boy A' happy? Is he genuinely happy with the girl he loves? If you truly love him, you'd be happy for him. You're his friend, and it sounds like you should really know this. If you truly loved him, you'd stick around to find out if he would be truly happy, and if he isn't, and breaks up with her, then you can be there to comfort him, you yourself having a boyfriend of yourself, or not. Maybe then love will flourish between you two. 'Boy B': Love can be like that sometimes, and I can't understand how it must hurt you, but you have to be patient with these things. Oh my gosh If someone hasn't told you this before, drill it into your brain: Love is more diverse than people on the planet. It will come once, it will come twice, it will come however many times you allow it to. You need patience. c: It must hurt to see someone so dear to you have feelings for someone else, but imagine how he's feeling, too. He likes someone who is taken, and you like someone who is blind to your feelings. You all could be in the same situation and know that love comes time, and time again, and you two could move on. I can't really tell you what to do in this situation, but to listen to your heart, and do what you believe is best. It must hurt, I know, but you are your own person, and you are beautiful, and you can find your own love for yourself, no matter what the circumstances. Someone will come along, and you might be taken, and they might be in the same predicament. With love comes patience. I realize I probably didn't help, but those are my thoughts and my opinions on something like this. I don't speak from experience, but from heart. <3
thank you so much
he isnt blind, he knows very well and it makes him feel guilty sometimes haha...
and BOY A is happy with his gf and im happy he can be happy...GIRL A doesnt like me cuz i told BOY A how i feel about him and he accepted it and said that hell still be here for me
í dσ вєlíєvє ít's tєα tímє It's no problem. All girls deserve to be hopelessly in love once in their lives. c: It's for the experience, so they can tell their kids what happened, so they can help them through it! So he knows how you feel? Well, it could be eating at him, too. He could think of you as just as a friend, but that could be because he likes the other girl so much. It could be, or it couldn't be. I'm happy Boy A and you are still good friends! I hope Boy A lies down the line that his girlfriend doesn't have to get along with you, but so long as you two know each other, you should treat each other equally for the most part. I'm sure you both mean the world to him, and jealousy on the other girl's part is a nasty emotion.(If she's feeling it.) I hope she can overcome it to think of you as a friend(You sound like a nice person!) c:
BOY A tries to get us to get along, and i try to be nice to her, but when she calls me names...its just not fair...she causes BOY A emotional problems too, since she doesnt live in our town or go to the same college as BOY A, so he gets upset when she doesnt text him or tell him something
me and BOY A are know for caring/loving TOO MUCH for one thing haha, and it always bites up in the butt in the end
í dσ вєlíєvє ít's tєα tímє Ouch. :c That must be hard. Well, I dunno. I really hope she can get over that jealousy, really. And if it doesn't happen, I hope he really can be happy with her, and you. I'm sure (kinda...) it'll all work out!
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Posted: Sat Oct 05, 2013 6:35 pm
Buttercream Belle Mystressfluffy2 Buttercream Belle Mystressfluffy2 Buttercream Belle Ah, I can't really tell you this from experience, but I'd love to give my opinion to you. o u o Ask yourself this: Is 'Boy A' happy? Is he genuinely happy with the girl he loves? If you truly love him, you'd be happy for him. You're his friend, and it sounds like you should really know this. If you truly loved him, you'd stick around to find out if he would be truly happy, and if he isn't, and breaks up with her, then you can be there to comfort him, you yourself having a boyfriend of yourself, or not. Maybe then love will flourish between you two. 'Boy B': Love can be like that sometimes, and I can't understand how it must hurt you, but you have to be patient with these things. Oh my gosh If someone hasn't told you this before, drill it into your brain: Love is more diverse than people on the planet. It will come once, it will come twice, it will come however many times you allow it to. You need patience. c: It must hurt to see someone so dear to you have feelings for someone else, but imagine how he's feeling, too. He likes someone who is taken, and you like someone who is blind to your feelings. You all could be in the same situation and know that love comes time, and time again, and you two could move on. I can't really tell you what to do in this situation, but to listen to your heart, and do what you believe is best. It must hurt, I know, but you are your own person, and you are beautiful, and you can find your own love for yourself, no matter what the circumstances. Someone will come along, and you might be taken, and they might be in the same predicament. With love comes patience. I realize I probably didn't help, but those are my thoughts and my opinions on something like this. I don't speak from experience, but from heart. <3
thank you so much
he isnt blind, he knows very well and it makes him feel guilty sometimes haha...
and BOY A is happy with his gf and im happy he can be happy...GIRL A doesnt like me cuz i told BOY A how i feel about him and he accepted it and said that hell still be here for me
í dσ вєlíєvє ít's tєα tímє It's no problem. All girls deserve to be hopelessly in love once in their lives. c: It's for the experience, so they can tell their kids what happened, so they can help them through it! So he knows how you feel? Well, it could be eating at him, too. He could think of you as just as a friend, but that could be because he likes the other girl so much. It could be, or it couldn't be. I'm happy Boy A and you are still good friends! I hope Boy A lies down the line that his girlfriend doesn't have to get along with you, but so long as you two know each other, you should treat each other equally for the most part. I'm sure you both mean the world to him, and jealousy on the other girl's part is a nasty emotion.(If she's feeling it.) I hope she can overcome it to think of you as a friend(You sound like a nice person!) c:
BOY A tries to get us to get along, and i try to be nice to her, but when she calls me names...its just not fair...she causes BOY A emotional problems too, since she doesnt live in our town or go to the same college as BOY A, so he gets upset when she doesnt text him or tell him something
me and BOY A are know for caring/loving TOO MUCH for one thing haha, and it always bites up in the butt in the end
í dσ вєlíєvє ít's tєα tímє Ouch. :c That must be hard. Well, I dunno. I really hope she can get over that jealousy, really. And if it doesn't happen, I hope he really can be happy with her, and you. I'm sure (kinda...) it'll all work out!
thank you so much
you have a lovely avatar
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