Crazy Ironside
Lately as I've been hanging with him as friends, I haven't had time to do any benefits stuff with him for a while. I realized some habits or things he does gets me a bit upset.
1. I don't mind being friend with benefits, I know he also "plays" around with one of my friends. I don't mind if its with her. But when he talks about other girl's he slept with or anything like that, I get mad and a bit jealous. I feel a bit unappreciated and un-noticed
2. He over-exaggerates a lot and when he gets in pissed off moods or gets really mad and upset. It scares me and I'm afraid to talk to him cause I know he blows up at people when he's mad. Example: I went to the city with him and the other girl I know he plays with. He got upset and overly mad cause we couldn't find a parking spot. After going around the lot, he tells us to get our tickets and go on the train and he'll take the next train. Then after we both got on the train, he then texts us that he will go home and told us to have fun. Later on he got on a train but during the trip he would get angry once and a while and I would be all passive-like
Leave and don't look back, its hard to figure things out. And sometime you just don't have the experience to recognize whats really going on. The safest coarse is to not look back and leave. I recommend the same to your friend. my philosophy is you shouldn't be having sex until you know where you stand 100% with a person and don't enter a relationship if you can't tell that person absolutely everything.
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