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 Posted: Tue Apr 05, 2011 7:14 pm
My name is Nin. I got married last October 7th to the male love of my life. He's three years younger than me and we met on the school bus, mainly because of anime. We dated for three years before tying the knot at our costume wedding.
Before we dated, I dated my first female lover, and during that time, it came out that my best friend had feelings for me, which was confusing because of her situation and being "straight".
Not very proud of myself, but she and I did things we shouldn't without my fiance's knowledge, but I came clean well before we were engaged and have since worked on our trust issues.
He knew we still hung out, but the tension between me and her would always be there when we hung out, and he finally gave the go ahead for us to have a relationship, which has recently turned to them doing things as well.
We're knew, and there's a lot that can go wrong, but right now we're happy. Not perfect but happy, and I have high hopes for us.
And that's the tip of the iceberg. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 11:18 am
Welcome friend, to the circle of love.
Lawl yeah. Confusing dynamic, but it works heart
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Posted: Wed May 25, 2011 8:55 pm
I demand that you take me with you.
I think there was a lot that happened at once, and you were kind of slammed. And now you feel numb/empty and kind of removed from the people involved.
I wish I could be around more. Especially this week! My life's been put on hold for this...whatever it is that I have. But never you worry. Eevee will be a constant companion again soon! I think this fever's kicked my a** long enough, eh?
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Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 7:40 am
*hugs* That's a tough boat to be in, I completely understand. But don't forget you have the guildies to turn to as well, we're here for everyone. My PM box is always open as well if you want to talk a bit more privately.
I'd suggest talking to the fourth close friend of yours though, clear the air about things that are happening and make sure she gets the truth about what's going on (instead of just angry ranting from another friend who might be misinterpreting things). Then at least you'll know where you stand with her.
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Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 8:47 am
Mame pretty much said everything I would have- my PM box is open, you should talk to your other friend and stuff.
It might help to see if there's a poly-social scene in your area too.
*hugs* You're not alone- so even though things are difficult, and stressful- there are people out there to support all 3 of you.
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Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 8:24 pm
My Kitty.
I know how you feel. I do my best to be a good listener and be as understanding as possible. I'm still trying to be the best friend whilst being the girlfriend. But I know there are things you'd prefer to talk to with someone who was only a friend.
I know you listen to me (and my parents, and your mom, and your cousin...) when I need to rant about my ex's latest terrorist demands, and I love having the support. You need support too, love!
I think you should talk to Ar too. It really would be great to know how she feels about all of this. Another thing is (although you might disagree, this is something I've observed) that you make friends easily. People just like you. You're down to earth (when you're not being the Queen of Pants) and non-judgemental, and people pick up on it and appreciate that. That's why you have so many different types of friends. It's too bad we can't tell two of our other friends, because I think they have good insights to things and sensible advice. There's just that whole polyamory thing sweatdrop
Just remember, if you ever want to rant/cry/snicker about anyone or anything (that isn't me obviously), I'm always here to listen. Or I will be, once I'm off work. And if you want to go to therapy, I support that. A good therapist is invaluable.
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2011 2:13 am
Kitty Konspirator I think I'm separated. And all over 120 dollars worth of fireworks. Four years, and my marriage is over. I don't even know how to tell Eev. I hope to talk to her in the morning. She was home sick all day with a stomach ache. I'm not even sure what to do with myself. I can't even sleep. 0_o I'm so sorry to hear that, Nin. I replied to your PM before reading here...I guess that answers my question sweatdrop But, "think" you're separated...that means there's some doubt about the issue? Either way, buying fireworks seems an odd issue to split over.
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