Friend with benifits?

[Origin-of-Fire]

is it really wrong to have one, or to try and find one? I only ask cause im looking for one or to be one, and some people tend to look down on that  

[SADERR]

I don't see the problem with a physical relationship like that, as long as the other person knows exactly what this relationship will be of, and that they agree completely and wholeheartedly to this manner of friendship.  

[the_forgotten_thought]

if you only want them for the benefits and they are aware and understand that, then there's not really a big problem. i mean, so long as you're both safe about it and you don't lead them on, it's fine.  

[Origin-of-Fire]

I'm always safe about it, but i cant seem to really find anyone up here in Washington state.  

[Tactical Wombat]

Just gonna say now that you can't use the guild to find some booty.
We won't be held responsible if you're twelve and some forty year old shows up at your door. So all you Washington members don't go getting all excited.
I am on the wrong account to give modly advice. But it still stands.

Also, friends with benefits?
If you're that in need, why worry so much about the friends part. If you're all about the unattached sexin' I don't think you really need someone you can rely on texting at two in the morning. You just need to persistently go places with other people who like to rub themselves on strangers.
But I don't know. Maybe you're one of those freaks who likes to know the name of the person you're sleeping with.

Just keep your crotch safe. Remember to take some steel wool to it every few weeks, or somethang.  

[Ayame_Rikimayu]

Do what you want. I know that sounds cliche but...
I'm in a situation like that. It does make things awkward, but that's because said person in my life was my friend before the benefits.  

[Whisper Gently]

Ayame_Rikimayu

Do what you want. I know that sounds cliche but...
I'm in a situation like that. It does make things awkward, but that's because said person in my life was my friend before the benefits.

You used the word cliche wrong.

 

[Whisper Gently]

Tactical Wombat

Just gonna say now that you can't use the guild to find some booty.
We won't be held responsible if you're twelve and some forty year old shows up at your door. So all you Washington members don't go getting all excited.
I am on the wrong account to give modly advice. But it still stands.

Also, friends with benefits?
If you're that in need, why worry so much about the friends part. If you're all about the unattached sexin' I don't think you really need someone you can rely on texting at two in the morning. You just need to persistently go places with other people who like to rub themselves on strangers.
But I don't know. Maybe you're one of those freaks who likes to know the name of the person you're sleeping with.

Just keep your crotch safe. Remember to take some steel wool to it every few weeks, or somethang.

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[SADERR]

Tactical Wombat

Just keep your crotch safe. Remember to take some steel wool to it every few weeks, or somethang.

The only option is sandpaper. Clean ya alll up. =D  

[Awesome Akwardness]

I'd like a friend with benefits... Hell... I'd like to actually have a friend. lol  

[Jinx Noir]

Friends with benefits, I love that arrangement. But umm... just make sure that you don't sleep with someone you want to be friends with for a really long time cause that could ******** things up.

Recently I kinda just got done with a friends with benefits thing... he basically stopped talking to me and just totally kicked me out of his life because he met a girl. The ******** thing is he didn't even tell me that he met a girl. He didn't even say like hey, I met someone, next time we hang out it's just gonna be hanging out. He just kept making excuses not to hang out (which were all bullshit) and then ignored me when we did hang out with a group of people including the chick.

Now I'm happy he has a girlfriend. She's gorgeous and amazing, and super sweet. It just pisses me off that he had to be a p***y and instead of just you know talking to me he just went off and did his thing.

So yeah. Moral of the story, don't sleep with a friend if you really want the friendship to last. I mean I'm sure everyone's case is different, but hey that was my most recent and it sucks.

 

[Necrodancer Ghost]

It can work so long as both parties are mature and honest about their intentions to each other.

I recently broke off the sexual part of my friendship with one girl because I started having feelings towards another, and she's perfectly fine with it(and happy for me). Neither of us ever got that emotionally attached and we both understood the arrangement. We still hang out all the time and there's never any awkwardness between us.

In the shallow holes of a thousand eyes
In the knee-deep graves of future survivors
The fleshless guests live off children of the past
Their aging fingers cast the Shadow of Death

 

[Willie-John[Abomination]]

there is nothing wrong with friends with benifits..its the best biggrin  

[Hyena_Queen]

Speaking from personal experience, there is nothing wrong with it so long as both of the people involved have a crystal clear understanding of what each other expects from the arrangement. Things don't get awkward that way.  

[Awesome Akwardness]

I'm curious, how does one actually go about asking someone to be friends with benefits? neutral
How do you bring up that conversastion? razz