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Minerva the Bookwyrm Captain
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Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2008 12:51 am
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Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2009 9:32 am
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Minerva the Bookwyrm Captain
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Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2009 10:25 am
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Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2009 10:56 pm
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Posted: Thu Feb 12, 2009 6:17 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 10:09 pm
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Minerva the Bookwyrm Captain
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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 2:01 pm
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Minerva the Bookwyrm Captain
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Posted: Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:34 pm
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When I have writers block I have the ideas; I can feel them somewhere beind my eyelids, but I cannot reach them, cannot put them into words.
So, what I need to do - like Suze said - is work on something else that I can put my thoughts into words about. I'll pick a painting, drawing, quote, or writing prompt and transcribe a short poem or story or character sketch about it. That gets my energy going, and sometimes it cures it.
Make sure that you give yourself over completely to the writing prompt that you're working on, and don't continue to stress about what piece you're blocked on. Wasn't it Edison that said if you stop thinking about a problem then the answer comes to you?
Once, there was a story that I wrote up to the midway point, and I knew how I wanted the very end to be, but I couldn't get through the second half of the middle. I stopped worrying about it after a few days of no progress, and successfully wrote many other essays/stories/poems over the next few months. Then, one day, out of nowhere I just got it, and I rushed home and finished it! I know months is a long time wait, and it usually doesn't take me that long to get over a block, but it was worth it once I was finished.
It also helps to just write without stoppping. Worry about correcting your grammar and spelling, and choosing better adjectives, later. Don't waste the time when your muse is present to be an editor; just be a writer!
Hmm...*goes to look at Cricket's link* Well, I read the table of contents inside of it, and it looks like there might be some good ideas in there for Blocked. I don't think I'll read, though, because it seems to mostly be about understanding yourself and having confidence in your wriing skills, and I'm already covered in those areas. People who don't know themselves and say "I need to find myself" really confuse me; I've always been an introvert and unable to relate to them.
Anyway, Blocked, I wish you the best of luck!
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Posted: Thu Jun 04, 2009 1:23 pm
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Quote: Dear Keeper, My parents don’t want me dating my boyfriend because he smokes. He’s nice and interesting, and funny, but he smokes. I don’t think that’s a good reason to write someone off and I’m thinking about seeing him even though they told me not to. What do you think? Yours truly, In Love
In Love,
You are in quite the situation there. Truthfully, I am not exactly set on what advice I have for you, so I am going to wing it. First of all, even though we don't like it, our parents set rules for us because they they love us and want to protect us. So maybe you should talk to your parentals and come to an understanding. Also, smoking is a very unhealthy habit. Maybe you can convince your boyfriend to quit. That would be better for his health in the long run and then your parents don't have a reason to say no to you dating him.
G'luck!
Suze
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Minerva the Bookwyrm Captain
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Posted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 3:16 pm
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Wow, that's very good advice, Suze! Yes, parents want what's best for us. There are exceptions, but because your parents are taking an interest in your life, I can safely presume that they love you.
If it were me, Suze, I would've been insensitive and said, "Ew! How can you date a smoker? They spend tons of their paycheck on a habit that blackens their lungs and makes them smell. The stench gets in their hair, on their clothes, and in their mouth. How can you find someone that smelly and foolish with finances attractive?" It's probably better that you're the Keeper!
Of course, I'm allergic to smoke, and have asthmatic sisters, which doesn't help me have sympathy for "addicted" smokers. Ruining your own health is one thing, but giving OTHER people health problems because of YOUR habit is quite another. I'm so happy that smoking is banned in almost all public places.
Honestly, In Love, if he's "in love" with you too, then he'd quit. It might be gradual and take a few months, but he'd do it.
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Posted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 12:38 pm
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Quote: Dear Keeper, A good friend of mine had told me that he liked me and I accepted it and we didn't let it get in the way of our friendship until he texted me on the last day of school. I left to go home early and he texted me, "I wanted to tell you in person before you left but, here is something thought provoking to think about over the summer. I love you". Now I replied by telling him "I'm allergic to b.s.". I still text him like normal but it feels awkward, what should I do? Sincerely, Love-Me-Not
Dear Love-Me-Not,
Wow, my best friend is in the exact same situation.This is certainly a tough one. Even though it may feel awkward, talk to your friend about your confusion and whatever else you are feeling. If he really loves you, he'd stop doing things like that if it makes you uncomfortable. Even if he doesn't love you and was just joking, he still should be a good enough friend to lay off it.
Good luck!
Keeper of the Elfish Wisdom Suze <3
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Minerva the Bookwyrm Captain
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Posted: Thu Jun 18, 2009 9:20 am
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Posted: Thu Jun 18, 2009 7:14 pm
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Quote: Dear Keeper, I have this friend who is becoming all boy crazy. She is not the same person I became friends with at all any more. She is one of my best friends, but with her becoming so different I still want to be her friend. I just don't know what I can do. I've known her since kindergarten and love her dearly. I just don't like putting up with her like this. My other friend has told her straight up how she's been acting, but the boy crazy friend just ignores it. I'm not the only one she acts likes this towards, so I know it isn't just me. And the thing is, it isn't just one or two guys that she is obsessing over, it's like six or seven. One of which is my cousin, who she hasn't even met. Is there anything I can do? I'm not willing to stop being her friend, so that is out of the question. Perhaps there is something better I could do? Please help me if you can. Signed, I want to keep my friend
Dear I want to keep my friend,
Ehh.. tough situation. I think I would personally would sit her down and have a heart to heart talk. Basically tell her that you miss her, who she used to be, and you can't stand loosing her. If she keeps ignoring you, I don't think there is much else you can do. Can you tell I've been in this situation before? Just keep working on her, reminding her how she is hurting her friends in this 'stage' and hopefully, eventually, she'll see the error of her ways.
Good luck and I hope things go well,
Keeper of Elfish Wisdom SuzelovesJamesPotter
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Minerva the Bookwyrm Captain
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 11:14 pm
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