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Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 7:40 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 7:44 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:03 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:25 pm
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When me and my husband have kids, we are going to raise them to have respect for others and if not, my husband is a southner, one way or another, they will learn. Even if that means staying with Granny and doing chores until the hands bleed (build a porch, etc). I will not take any crap from them, I'm lucky my brother is raising my nephews right. (Even though one of them broke my glasses when he was 3, he never did that again!) My upstairs neighbors need to learn too, her kid is up until like 1 sometimes, and he's like 4! I wanna smack her! It's the person raising the kids sometimes, not just the kids. xp
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Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:32 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 9:09 pm
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Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 4:08 am
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Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 5:32 am
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Unfortually back in the 80s and stuff, if we were spanked, we were bad and that was it. (My brother got Indian Burns, he was a hard kid to catch, so once my mom had his arm, it was easier before he ran away again!) Now-a-days, if a kid gets spanked, he can call the authorities, blame child abuse, and get the parent in trouble for trying to disapline. That pisses me off. Where's the judgice? We got spanked, we learned. Kids now get spanked, get authorities. What the hell is that?
(I wish this thing had spell check)
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Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:25 am
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Lenorecat Unfortually back in the 80s and stuff, if we were spanked, we were bad and that was it. (My brother got Indian Burns, he was a hard kid to catch, so once my mom had his arm, it was easier before he ran away again!) Now-a-days, if a kid gets spanked, he can call the authorities, blame child abuse, and get the parent in trouble for trying to disapline. That pisses me off. Where's the judgice? We got spanked, we learned. Kids now get spanked, get authorities. What the hell is that? (I wish this thing had spell check)
Exactly. You can't even dicipline your child with a spanking anymore without the authorities breathing down your neck. The effects of a spanking are too much exaggerated by the child welfare. Quite a few of us geezers got spanked at least once and did that have any negative effects on our mental wellbeing?
And it's a bit ironic to see child welfare trying to help and protect all the children but despite their effort, our country (The Netherlands) had to cope with quite a few familiy dramas in the past 6 years where the parent(s) killed their children and themselves. Child Welfare didn't see it coming because they're closely watching the good parents trying to properly raise our children and see to it that we're not spanking them too much. How disgraceful.
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Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:37 am
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