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Posted: Fri May 23, 2008 10:27 pm
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Posted: Fri May 23, 2008 11:32 pm
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Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 10:05 pm
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Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 11:19 pm
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Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 12:00 am
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Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 12:20 am
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Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 12:45 am
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damnatio memoriae hmmm... lets see. Any stares that occurred never bothered me. I'm a natural nurturer and protector so if people had a problem then that was their problem, not mine. If people asked questions, I answered them. You'd be surprised by how open people with disabilities are with talking about it. It's much better to approach and ask questions in my opinion then just stare. As for group activities... would it be possible for them to tag along and watch? If the issue is them keeping up, would a wheelchair allow them the ability to keep up? Just because they can't participate in something doesn't mean they can't observe and enjoy being out and socializing. I think that if they were uncomfortable with the activity and didn't want to continue then hopefully they would speak up and have no shame in excusing themselves. Unfortunately I'm no longer friends with her due to her lack of communicating to me what was truly going on with her. I'm not medically trained and the only thing I could do was to sit with her when she had an episode and talk to her. Other things were going on and she wouldn't be open and honest with me about about things she could and could not do. Her seizures were getting worse and one time I think that she was frozen for close to an hour. I was scared to death because, like I said I'm not medically trained, so I didn't know how to handle the situation. I told her on numerous occasions that she needs to be honest with me and she continued to lie about incredibly important stuff that I needed to know. I think that you should have a little faith in people with accepting your friend. Are they truly friends if they choose to make fun instead of give support? Whew, it took me more than a minute to find this.... http://www.dariusgoeswest.com/One of the most moving documentaries. Darius suffers from a form of MS that will eventually kill him. His friends decided that they were going to fulfill his dream of going west to see the Pacific. They did things with him that most other friends would shy away from. This truly shows that you can do anything you set you mind to. I hope that this inspires you!
That's awesome (I actually knew him through clinics and ol).
It wouldn't be a problem just tagging along. More like what the group wanted to do wasn't accessible to them? How far would you be willing to go? I'm sorry she wasn't honest with you, it sounds like she could have really used someone like you who would let her open up. I know about being open with disabilities, I don't think there's a question I wouldn't answer, though I'm not one to volunteer. I especially like children and their bluntness. Parents get all uptight and that attitude really hurts because by doin that, you're just teaching the kid that disabilities are something wrong and you should be ashamed of them.
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Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 12:51 pm
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Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 8:48 pm
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