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Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 2:47 am
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Posted: Sat Apr 19, 2008 9:02 am
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Posted: Sat Apr 19, 2008 6:57 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 19, 2008 7:15 pm
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G*DAMMIT! This is not self-pity! You are under a great deal of stress and if you choose to release some of it with a rant, then please, do so.
I'm glad that book helped you, but it's never helped me. It kinda overlooks the fact that sometimes, there isn't another maze... or that, if you spend your whole life chasing the cheese, looking for peanut better (which we all prefer in our mousy hearts) is an intuitive leap you may have a great deal of trouble making.
But! Oh! How I hate that book.
I hate books that tell you all you employees should be salesmen. I hate books that talk about "creating wealth" and I hate books that leave people who've had a tough time thinking it was somehow, on some level, their fault for not dealing with it well enough!
So, if you feel a little sorry for yourself or your husband feels the icy hand of despair, that's okay. I don't think any less of you for it. I know no one on these boards will.
You sound like people who've had hard decisions to make before, to me. You sound like you're facing a tough situation, but you're thinking about it. You sound like you care for your husband and your family and what's right.
And that's why I know you'll do the right thing. You will find comfort and peace. Screw the cheese analogy. I beleive in you, for what that's worth.
I also think you should listen to the song "Mexican Wine" by Fountains of Wayne, if you get a chance. It's only mildly related to your situation, but maybe you'll find it funny. It's off the album, "Welcome Interstate Managers"
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Posted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 11:09 am
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