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AntoniaMerEnfant

PostPosted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 1:26 am


I had a relatively innocuous request today from a friend, but something about it struck me as odd. A friend of mine wanted my little brother's address (he's away at college) so she could send him a letter. She said it wasn't a love letter or anything, so I figured that was sort of a natural reaction since we all think she's had a crush on him for some time (this friend is younger than me I should note). But then she said the letter was sort of an apology.

I'm a little worried because she has never done anything that bothered my little brother. I couldn't think of a reason she should be sorry. Last summer she had some issues with depression though.

I'm going to talk with my mom tomorrow, but should I approach her about my concerns? Or is it probably something totally different altogether?
PostPosted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 8:32 am


That's a bit tricky...maybe talk to your brother about it? And perhaps also let her know that you are around if she ever needs to talk? (Sorry, I'm falling asleep, so I'm having trouble articulating myself.)

Doressa
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Noirkaze

PostPosted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 11:47 am


I agree with Doressa. Talk to your brother to see if there is a reason, not that you need to know sais reason, just to see if there is cause for concern. Also, let her know you are there to talk if needed.
PostPosted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 1:12 pm


i agree with that they said...

lightprincess03


Kinkigalinki

PostPosted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 7:43 pm


What did your Mum have to say about it?
PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 8:14 pm


i agree with doressa, i think you should talk to your brother about it.. after all, he's the only one that can really tell you what might or might not have been going on in his life regarding this girl.. good luck ^_^ let us know how you go about it biggrin

[[[ bunny ]]]


AntoniaMerEnfant

PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 9:38 pm


Update:

Pretty much it turns out she was wanting to apologize for being in love with him-- or something. And she had this journal entry about it. I let my little brother know so he's going to try and talk to her.

Unfortunately the emergency with my boyfriend (he has a thread about it, the duck thread) took precedence. I let her know I had to handle that situation first, and she said she understood and hoped he'd get well soon.
PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 9:44 pm


I think you've done the right thing, poor girl though, unrequited love is no fun!

Oh, and I hope your boyfriend gets well soon too!!

Doressa
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