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I am 13, have been feeling things for both genders at a young age. Thats how i am, in a sense, i dont think its choice. It just goes naturally and what you like, is what you like. Im bisexual, have been for probably all my life , realized it not too long ago. But dont worry too much, the time will come( i swear, there is nooo way im 13, much much too wise..) razz

I don't think the right word is decide. I think its more of how u feel and going with those feelings. sexual orientation isn't a big deal to me but well...I'd have to say I was undefined for a while and now I'm just putting a claim to pansexuality to friends cause when I think about who I want to be with sex of the person doesn't raise a issue.

Anyway- as for yourself, you just have to go with the flow and figure out 'what turns you on' like others said. as for your parents if u ever come out of the closet beware that they might be hiding in it(not ready to deal with it) and all problems will sort out with time. you'll know because eventually you get to know yourself as you go through puberty and develop attractions and develop as a person. also having a best friend or so maybe a gsa can help you

hope this helps and I don't sound like some holy mother bs personality all about lecture or something seriously not claiming ultimate wisdom here
luck to ya neutral