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Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 1:49 am
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I think this fits here, since some of us is on the age that (real life) marriage is actually considered as an option.. or already in one xd if you have experience with them you'd like to tell, please share 3nodding
.... um, me someone, a (casual, online, but lives in neighbouring city, know each other's face etc) friend who I haven't had contact with for months, proposed to me yesterday well, this is the first time someone did that with me .. very much opposing the possibility (well, no, but this tops the WTF-factor since it's out of the blue). I sent a message to him basically saying "please tell me you sent that to the wrong person. or drunk. or both."
he replied today and said he's still dead serious.
.. uh. just ignore the message altogether and act as if I never received it ? stare I wonder if there's a more 'adult' way to deal with it.. or I shouldn't even bother trying to act my age.. (kinda hoping he hasn't received my reply yesterday and would get the picture when he does domokun )
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Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 6:12 am
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Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 7:56 am
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Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 2:02 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 2:23 pm
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Seeress Yup, ditto to what Pirate said... I would think that either he's joking with you (because I always tend to think that people are joking when they do stuff like that), or he's somewhat delusional. If it's the latter case, then there might not be anything you can do to not hurt his feelings, but being adult about it is the most painless thing to do. Archangel, I think proposing on Halloween would be nifty. But then, I have a house full of skeletons, do a Nightmare Before Christmas tree every year, and have been known to spend Valentine's Day with my man in a cemetery, so I might have a slightly skewed perception. xd well, we are kind of the goth crowd. I had to give my clothes up when my command freaked out (someone saw me in town and of course I was out of uniform...)
I wish I had a pic of her putting on my dress whites...
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Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 9:54 pm
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Heh, then proposing on Halloween should probably go over quite well. You might try trolling for your lady friend's opinion on the matter, but I think sunsets in cemetaries are very romantic. wink
Sadly enough, I suppose, neither my man nor I are goths, although I have a lot of goth friends. We're nerds, through and through. But he likes to make props and replicas... and he's been working on a haunted house walkthrough for a couple of years. So I have skeletons in my living room, skulls on my fireplace mantle, dungeon walls in my library, and coffins in my garage. I ACTUALLY have skeletons in my closet, since we stuck a bunch in there to get them out of the way until Halloween. xd
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Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 9:55 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 3:11 am
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I once said something about a tale of grief and woe regarding a prievious online relationship? =P
My dearest Cecelia, once known on Gaia as Zo', was once engaged to be married to me, on Gaia. We had fallen in love on Gaia and when the gold and silver promise rings had been released I sent her a gold one as a token of my love. She misinterpretated this as a marriage proposal and I went along with it. I loved her, I loved her more than anything, marriage was in no way a mistake or a bad thing. So, I sent a proper message, a proper proposal. She was over the moon, delighted, she felt the same way I did...
A mutual friend of ours was going to arrange it, I bought a wedding outfit (remarkably geeky, I know, but at the time I was hopelessly in love, it all seemed right) and a working date had been established. All of our friends from our home forum and guilds were invited, it was to be the most awesome thing ever to happen to me on Gaia. I had fallen in love and the whole world was going to know...
However, the date kept getting postponed. I had told her we could do it whenever she was ready, I didn't want her to feel rushed. I even gave her 40k so she could pick an entire outfit in one go. But the date kept getting pushed forward...
I hadn't the courage to broach the subject myself but the reasons soon presented themselves later. I was being betrayed, she was seeing another guy on Gaia (and a girl in real life). I was rapidly becoming a lower priority in her life. The day she told me we should put it off because she 'wasn't sure' I should have known.
When she left Gaia while I was out of the country and beyond contact, she sold all of her items except for the gold promise ring. Perhaps she has a shred of humanity in her yet.
Edit: I got it wrong. She did sell the ring. That hurts. Unforgivable.
Needless to say, I won't be trying that again for a good while xP
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 12:54 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 2:56 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 4:56 pm
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