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Uhg.

This girl I knew from church years ago I took her off my Facebook a couple of years ago, she was always whining about wanting a boyfriend/girlfriend and it was a constant thing. Pretty much begging for attention and complements from anyone and constantly begging others to date her. I took her off my list because I couldn't handle the needy behavior and it was draining me. I tried to tell her that you don't need to have a partner in order to be happy and that you need to love yourself before you try to love someone else, I also gave her some scripture to look up, she didn't want any part of it.

Well she randomly popped in my head today so I looked her up to see if she was still carrying on with the needy and attention seeking behavior. Well she is now dating an ex of mine from middle/high school, NOW to make this clear I do not have any "feelings" for this guy. I broke up with him because he was very abusive emotionally and verbally, he is also a very vocal racist. I mean he owned KKK memorabilia and would blare racist songs in the car. He would tell me to loose weight and if I did anything at all that he deemed out of line he wouldn't talk to me or would play mind games to try to guilt trip me. The guy is bad news.

I'm kinda worried about her because she has always been eager to please someone and if she dating a person she will do anything and everything in her power to keep them around. I dunno if he is still as bad as he was cause after the break up I cut off all contact with him, his friends, and family. It's also been a good six or seven years since we "dated". So he could have changed, but I have doubts.

Since she is with someone who was abusive towards me I do not want to initiate any contact with either of them. So I will not be sending any friend requests or messages.

I guess pray for God to handle this as he sees appropriate. And pray that she's safe and has enough sense to get out if he's still abusive and mean.

Her name is Alyssa, His name is Mike.

wow yes, i pray that she won't be in any danger and is able to recognise her self worth without a man in her life. sad emotion_8c

I do, however, have a big praise for Him; my sister has since gotten engaged (to a decent guy) and is expecting a daughter who is doing well. Due date of August 5th.

I will pray for this situation!