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 Posted: Sat Sep 14, 2013 2:08 pm
I'm 18, years ago when I was younger, a adult family friend got "too close" to me.
He got too handsy when helping me workout. It happened twice.
I forgave him through Christ, but now what do I do? Should I forget about it, or tell my family members who don't know. I don't want to hurt them by telling them, so I am confused.
If I forgave him, should I just leave this alone? What would Jesus do?
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 10:28 am
You can forgive, but you don't always need to forget.
I think it would be important for your family to know, but only if you're seeing him continue these actions either with you or someone else in an appropriate context. Sure you don't want to hurt anyone, but Jesus was one to rebuke people when they were doing something wrong.
Do your parents know, at least? If they do, that should be enough. But if he continues to behave inappropriately towards other people, everyone should know so that they may confront him.
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