Unfortunately many of the sinful things we have available to us today didnt exist when the bible was written even if the same underlying tones exist, bc lets face it evil has always taken new forms. Therefore not all sins or sinful actions are specifically warned against...we need to use the Spirit within us, speak with Christian mentors who are more mature in their faith whenever we are unsure. As well as use verses in context to guide us without lending our own opinion. These last two words can be very difficult.
Here are a series of questions MY mentor and Pastor gave the Youth Leaders at my church ni order to better guide us and help us in discerning God's will.
1. Will it be helpful?
1 Corinthians 10:23 "Everything is permissible (when in accordance with the new law), but not everything is beneficial."
2. Will is be constructive?
1 Corinthians 10:23 "...Everything is permissible, but not everything is constructive. "
3. Will it enslave me or cause me to lose control?
1 Corinthians 6:12 "All things are lawful for me, but not all things are helpful. All things are lawful for me but I willl not be brought under the power of any. "
4. Will it hinder me from giving my best?
Hebrews 12:1 "Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily hinders our progress. And let us run with endurance the race that God has set before us."
5. Am I using "grace" or "freedom in christ" to justify a secret sin or mask my true motives?
1 peter 2:15-16 "For it is God's will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish men. Live as free men, but do not use your freedom as a cover up for evil; live as servants of God. "
6.Will it better position me to lead others to christ?
7.Would I want others to follow my example?
8. Will it prompt others to ask me about my faith?
9. Will it violate my conscience?
10. What would Jesus do?
1 cor 10:31 "anyone who claims to be intimate with God ought to live the same kind of life Jesus lived.
11 Will it bring honor to God?
1 cor 10:31 "whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.
12. Will it move me a step closer to accomplishing God's plan for my life?
John 17:4 "I glorified you on earth completing down to the last detail what you assigned me to do.
If any thing you are doing or confused about seems to conflict with any of that or seems like it might... then you should really evaluate your decision and if you are ready to follow jesus with all aspects of your life. I hope I provided some clarity. God bless you and may the Spirit guide you.