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Mademoiselle Alvinette

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 9:47 am


Sachie Whitby
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I don't know what you're talking about because quite frankly after it was paraded around absolutely how everyone in this guild was getting invited to that guild including people who do not even log into Gaia anymore were all joining that guild...

I started to feel like crap... because having not gotten an invite there, it did start to feel like people didn't want me here in this guild either.

I don't know why you started to feel that way. I'm sorry if I was one of the ones who made you feel like you were being abandoned. I'm in five guilds right now, so I didn't think it was a big deal if I joined another one. I didn't post a lot in Vetus Gaianus over the past couple of weeks because I've been so busy. I'm not avoiding you or anyone else. I was just busy. Plus all the "us versus them" guild drama was making me feel uncomfortable. I got tired of the implications that we would have to choose. And apparently the admins of The Round Table are now starting to choose FOR us, because this morning I found out I've just been banned from The Round Table. Whatever. rolleyes At least now I don't have to worry about how my posting over there would make everyone here feel. Waaaaaaaay too much drama for me to want to have to deal with on a site where I come to relax, chat, and essentially play with paper dolls. But...yeah. I don't want to have to worry about guild rivalries or anything like that. I had to deal with enough of that in college, where I had a really jealous "friend" who tried to sabotage all my other friendships. I would hate it if all that crap started showing up on truly friendly places like Vetus Gaianus, and I don't want you to ever have a reason to feel uncomfortable here either. Vetus Gaianus is like a family, and you're in our family too. Please don't feel like you're not welcome here, because you ARE welcome.
PostPosted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 11:40 am


I wouldn't feel too bad about being removed from The Round Table. I was banned from it a while back myself. (the only guild I've ever been banned from - from any site) I was hoping that things had changed over there since I was a member - so I didn't want to say anything bad about it. I figured just because I had a bad experience there shouldn't mean that others couldn't enjoy it. But it turns out they might still have some issues. I find it ironic that they call themselves a "No Drama" guild and yet manage to create drama even in other guilds. (again I'm sure some people there have no problems with it and shouldn't be made to feel bad for being members)

I would be extremely sad though if they managed to upset things any more here. I've been in a few different guilds since I started in Gaia back in 2004 and Vetus Gaianus seems like one of the really good ones. I'm still a relative newbie to the guild but everyone here seems so nice.

As far as their recent recruitment goes - I'm pretty sure the invitations were random and they didn't mean to include or leave out anyone specifically. I bet they were just looking for more adults and this happened to be a guild with adults in it - and as per the pms between them and Chibi they didn't yet know they could recruit using an advertising thread. So their methods seemed a bit weird and understandably raised some red flags.

I completely agree there's no reason that people can't be members of that guild or any other guild at the same time as this wonderful guild. Hopefully we can just let each guild keep their business within their own forums and we can let this all pass.

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 4:04 pm


Yes. This. Vetus Gaianus is my online happy place, so hopefully nothing will happen that will hurt our guild family.
PostPosted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 8:55 pm


Camwen
I wouldn't feel too bad about being removed from The Round Table. I was banned from it a while back myself. (the only guild I've ever been banned from - from any site) I was hoping that things had changed over there since I was a member - so I didn't want to say anything bad about it. I figured just because I had a bad experience there shouldn't mean that others couldn't enjoy it. But it turns out they might still have some issues. I find it ironic that they call themselves a "No Drama" guild and yet manage to create drama even in other guilds. (again I'm sure some people there have no problems with it and shouldn't be made to feel bad for being members)

I would be extremely sad though if they managed to upset things any more here. I've been in a few different guilds since I started in Gaia back in 2004 and Vetus Gaianus seems like one of the really good ones. I'm still a relative newbie to the guild but everyone here seems so nice.

As far as their recent recruitment goes - I'm pretty sure the invitations were random and they didn't mean to include or leave out anyone specifically. I bet they were just looking for more adults and this happened to be a guild with adults in it - and as per the pms between them and Chibi they didn't yet know they could recruit using an advertising thread. So their methods seemed a bit weird and understandably raised some red flags.

I completely agree there's no reason that people can't be members of that guild or any other guild at the same time as this wonderful guild. Hopefully we can just let each guild keep their business within their own forums and we can let this all pass.

I'm glad you think so highly of this guild. biggrin I try my best to keep it fun and hospitable. heart Our previous captain got mad, banned all of the members, and closed the guild. I vowed when I bought a new guild to replace the old one (same members minus the old captain), I would make sure that it belonged to everyone, and that everyone had a vote in how it was run. It took us a few weeks to decide on this name, but it was a guild decision! xd

And, I'm like you. I'm ready for this whole thing to be over with, and get back to the fun conversations!

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 9:37 pm


Camwen
I wouldn't feel too bad about being removed from The Round Table. I was banned from it a while back myself. (the only guild I've ever been banned from - from any site) I was hoping that things had changed over there since I was a member - so I didn't want to say anything bad about it. I figured just because I had a bad experience there shouldn't mean that others couldn't enjoy it. But it turns out they might still have some issues. I find it ironic that they call themselves a "No Drama" guild and yet manage to create drama even in other guilds. (again I'm sure some people there have no problems with it and shouldn't be made to feel bad for being members)


I completely agree! They said that my being banned was a mistake because they were trying to clear out the minors but then never added me back in. I can't say I feel that bad about it. It annoyed me because, like you, I have never been banned before, but I didn't think they were all that great
I think this guild is so much more fun!
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