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tallagal22

PostPosted: Sun May 16, 2010 3:52 pm
This is random, but I often ponder it...
Who pays for dinner when two guys/ two girls go out?

(I am a straight female, and the guy always pays for my dinner on dates. I know this is 2010 and I am being old fashioned, but I'm stuck in my ways.)

So who pays?  
PostPosted: Mon May 17, 2010 7:17 pm
neither , just bale after your done eating rofl rofl  

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PostPosted: Tue May 18, 2010 2:04 am
My ex paid for everything
He was a rich smart dentist school guy!

Which made me mad because I felt I didn't really contribute financially
so i did it in other ways
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PostPosted: Tue May 18, 2010 4:01 pm
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My ex paid for everything
He was a rich smart dentist school guy!

Which made me mad because I felt I didn't really contribute financially
so i did it in other ways
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hmm you look familiar xd  

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PostPosted: Tue May 18, 2010 7:26 pm
masked_innocence
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My ex paid for everything
He was a rich smart dentist school guy!

Which made me mad because I felt I didn't really contribute financially
so i did it in other ways
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hmm you look familiar xd


Gosh darn, I wonder from where wink
 
PostPosted: Tue May 18, 2010 8:22 pm
I was never classy enough for dinner. But I suppose if you wished to honour that kind of traditional, I suppose the more dominant person in the relationship would take the 'male' role.

also hay guiz heart  

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PostPosted: Fri May 21, 2010 2:38 pm
On most dates, my previous boyfriend would insist that he pay for everything. I'd rather go dutch though, 'cause then I don't feel like I'm in debt.  
PostPosted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 7:40 am
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On most dates, my previous boyfriend would insist that he pay for everything. I'd rather go dutch though, 'cause then I don't feel like I'm in debt.


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 1:41 pm
My girlfriend usually pays, because all of my money gets put into my college fund. But I bring her flowers occasionally, which supposedly makes up for it.  
PostPosted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 12:11 am
I would say that the person who suggest the dinner pay. But if you are not sure then suggest that you pay for the meal if you have a gracious date then they might refuse and you should be happy and accept.  

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 14, 2010 2:07 am
Guys or Girls, I am of the strong opinion that its pay for your own  
PostPosted: Wed Jun 23, 2010 11:27 am
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My girlfriend usually pays, because all of my money gets put into my college fund. But I bring her flowers occasionally, which supposedly makes up for it.


I then proceed to kill the flowers 'cause I forget to water them. XD

In most cases it's considered polite for the dominate one to pay... Unless you're broke, in which case whoever has money should pay so that way you don't get kicked out. XD  

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 2:37 am
Unless it's a special occasion and one or the other has asked the other out, taking turns works nicely for me.
 
PostPosted: Sun Jul 11, 2010 10:48 pm
Hmmm...well I like to do it so its half and half <3 split the bill~  

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