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 Posted: Sat May 16, 2009 4:02 pm
So. . . my girlfriend and I have been in a fight practically all day. . . with the scary assumption that she's going to dump me. . .
Here's what happened:
Last night, a couple of friends that have screwed her over countless times come over to our other friends house to hang out. This one chick has backstabbed her and has said many nasty things about her in the past. I don't trust her nor do I like her, so I don't hang out with them, I stay in the house.
I go to bed at about 3 am and they're still up. Get up the next morning, my girlfriend and I instantly argueing about me not hanging out with them last night, calling me rude and such. The fight goes on and on and on. . . and we haven't yet come to a conclusion.
She's upset at me because to her I'm more of a mother than a girlfriend. Well, isn't girlfriend's supposed to look out for their other half, care for them, worry about them, and to know if they're safe or not? She has such poor judgment on people. . . I wish she would see it the way I see it.
I don't know. . . I may be in the wrong, maybe not. I just feel so. . . lost. I don't know what do to.
Would you all help me out? Please?
Tell me what I should do. . .
Malice~
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Posted: Sun May 17, 2009 7:46 am
hmmm, that does sound stressful for a situation, but in times like these you need ot be truthful to yourself as well as your girlfriend. She will only need to see a backstab coming from this other "friend" to realise that you are correct about thier personalities. also if she does dump you, you have ot have faith in the strong supports of your relationship that she might in time see that she had a great time with you and then come ot her senses why she dumped you. if on the other hand she doesn't come back, there wasn't a strong bridge of love holding your relationship and as much as it hurts or you don't want to accept it, it's best for you to not to be in that particular relationship. I do sincerly hope things work out for you and your girl though, hope this helps.
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Posted: Mon May 18, 2009 2:38 pm
palnoki,
Thankyou for your kind words. I really hope that things do work out smoothly as I wish. Again, thankyou. biggrin
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