Hello All,

Apologies but this is a bit of a saga... just wondering if any of you cat people out there have any tips or suggestions for me...

I have 4 yr old twin cats (Pebbles and Bam Bam) a 3 yr old boy (Tinker) who joined us as a homeless baby when the twins were 1 and a half, they accepted him fine at the time and the boys often cuddle up and sleep together and give each other a wash now - Pebbles is more stand offish but I think she just thinks boys are silly!

Anyway we have now taken in another baby from the Cats Protection rescue group - his is ginger, gorgeous, 15 weeks old and we've called him Harley, he is settling in fine and happy as anything in his new home but after 3 weeks the other cats are still off with him. Any idea how to encourage them all to be friends? Tinker has started to make an effort to play but Mr Bam is just not amused with him at all and as for Pebbles... the usual distain she gives to boys is thrown at the baby in full force (growl and a hiss when they pass)

I need happy family tips!