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 Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 9:16 am
Yeah so I met someone that's virtually perfect. At everything. He's super good looking, nice, funny, and super smart! No I'm not interested in him but I thought, "Oh he's cute. He'd make a nice boyfriend, If I need a date maybe I'd ask him sometime..." But then he's like "Gah *so and so* is such a f**!" Me,"A f**? Are you a homophobe." Him,"Yes. Well just for guys. Girls are fine..." Me," -_-; Oh so you can live with two girls making out, but a guy touching another and you'll run up a tree?" Him,"Yeah. I guess."
I had to resist facepalming, but I digress... That's basically what happened. And it seems like almost every day he always has to be like "Hey! I'm a homophobe okay. Stop acting gay..." blah blah blah. So I'm just like rolleyes whatever.
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So yeah. D: Anyone else have a situation like that?
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Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 4:17 pm
My boyfriend has internalized homophobia. I am transitioning from female to male. He says he will be ok with me being male, but him and I were talking and I am not convinced. He says he has liked guys before but whenever he daydreamed about them he was a girl so it turned into a straight dream.
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Posted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 5:44 pm
I have a sorta close friend who's really, intensely homophobic. And really passionate and kinda OCD about everything he does. And that really, really bothers me. Not 'cause I'm a yaoi fangirl, but because I'm bisexual. And he's pretty much the only reason I'm still not open about it. It feels like a big huge weight on my that I have to keep that part of me hidden, but... gah...
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Posted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 12:24 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 4:24 pm
That kinda sucks. But you know, I've found that a lot of guys are like that. They don't mind seeing two girls make out or worse but the moment two guys even hug they freak out.
My theory is that they are uncomfortable with their own gay tendencies. Everyone is a little bit bisexual, you are born that way. Like how perfectly straight people can recognize the beauty in someone of their own gender even if they are not sexually attracted to them. He's probably had thoughts like 'that guy's hot' and they frightened him because he's straight. He'll most likely get over it in time.
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Posted: Wed Oct 22, 2008 10:10 am
My bf is homophobic and I'm bisexual and an aspiring dominatrix. (PG 13 mrgreen can't get into detail.) I've thought about having a bf who's more open to his bisexuality but I love this guy too much. I say be who you are and if he doesn't like it too bad. I always lecture my bf for being hypocrite. If you're fully homophobic, then you won't like girls kissing each other either sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Oct 22, 2008 3:16 pm
Wellllllll according to the studies of Henry Adams and his colleagues at the University of Georgia 80% of homophobes seem to be hiding latent homosexual tendencies. He had asked two groups of male heterosexuals to watch videotapes that showed hetero, lez, and homosexual tapes of explicit sex. The groups had been split into those with and without homophobic tendencies. Obviously all of them had a nice reaction to the hetero and lesbian tapes though the odd thing is both had a percentage that became slightly aroused from the homosexual tape. To the homofriendly men it was only 66% that weren't aroused at all, for the phobic it was 20% that retained softness.
Though this is partially argued as being anxiety erections instead of repressed homosexual impulses. You do gotta wonder though. xB Invite him over and put a meter to his p***s then put on a homo tape. Nah I kid, he will be who he is, can't stop it. Just like I can't stop being me. I just gotta wonder if there is something afraid in there.
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Posted: Wed Oct 22, 2008 4:45 pm
I have found that all guys that are homophobic tend to have..... "HOMO" thoughts. I mean, what is wrong with a homo encounter? They have this small desire for a male to male moment and it haunts them biggrin The best part is that they never really love themselves and later become gay. Then, nobody they actually might have something in common with will ever, ever sleep with them. That's because they will eventually hate who they were. It is a vicious cycle that could all be prevented by self acceptance. Sad isn't it.
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