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PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 8:13 am



I noticed that some of us have questions they want to discuss, some of them are very serious some are less serious, but i guess it will be a help to everyone who has a question about life or anything else.
PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 8:40 am


i will start.
How to tell your boyfriend that he cannot deal with money?
he always waste it for things he does not need and at the end of the month he can hardly but something to eat.
one example: we visited his parents and his mom gave him 100 Euro. Next day he promised a friend to go shopping with him. He came back with 2 games and spend 40 euro for them. we played the games only once since he bought them.
today he worries how to pay his bills, next day when he got money he goes to town and buys an add on for the game.... xp
every month the same drama, he has never money for food or clothes or just to go out one weekend , but he always have money for games or cigarettes or to go to Mc D with his flat made.

well that´s the way i feel it, and i really don´t know what to do. i love him but i don´t want and cannot to pay his bills.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 06, 2008 10:06 pm


I think perhaps brutal honesty may be the best practice in your situation. It could be that he spends money on these things and then when rent time comes around he just doesn't realize that he in fact spent his money on these things. If it at all helps, you could suggest that he keeps a log of everything he spends down to the last cent.
PostPosted: Sun Sep 07, 2008 7:35 am


that sounds good, thank you for the help.

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