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 Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2010 12:49 pm
evilperson123 Anyone got a tip for girls that say that you are too good of a friend to go out, really bugs me, because I am a social introvert somewhat and I don't ask many people out *maybe two or three up to date*. Is it another way to say they just don't like you that way, or does it actually mean, they like you too much as a friend???   "Tɧe țϊɱe ʜas ɔɵмe," ҭhє ωᾱℓɹʉs sɑȉδ,
"Ⱦѻ ʇᾀʟҝ oʄ мαnץ ʈɦɪйɕs.
θϝ sнȏҽs & șɥῐῤs & ȼєɨɩiɲɢ ϖaж
----------------------------------------------------- This is just for general advice rather than specific/directed-at-a-person advice. ----------------------------------
Ȱғ cӓɞҍɑʛϵs ᾇȵʠ ɮȋπɠs.
Δи∂ ώʮϫ τнe ϛέᾃ ΐs ϐɸɪȴῖиɕ Ћϕʇ,
Ʌᾒם ѿȟɘтӊeɻ ρɨɢș ɦαѵҿ ώιήgʂ."
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Posted: Thu Aug 26, 2010 9:01 am
ravenkitty776 evilperson123 Anyone got a tip for girls that say that you are too good of a friend to go out, really bugs me, because I am a social introvert somewhat and I don't ask many people out *maybe two or three up to date*. Is it another way to say they just don't like you that way, or does it actually mean, they like you too much as a friend??? "Tɧe țϊɱe ʜas ɔɵмe," ҭhє ωᾱℓɹʉs sɑȉδ,
"Ⱦѻ ʇᾀʟҝ oʄ мαnץ ʈɦɪйɕs.
θϝ sнȏҽs & șɥῐῤs & ȼєɨɩiɲɢ ϖaж
----------------------------------------------------- This is just for general advice rather than specific/directed-at-a-person advice. ----------------------------------
Ȱғ cӓɞҍɑʛϵs ᾇȵʠ ɮȋπɠs.
Δи∂ ώʮϫ τнe ϛέᾃ ΐs ϐɸɪȴῖиɕ Ћϕʇ,
Ʌᾒם ѿȟɘтӊeɻ ρɨɢș ɦαѵҿ ώιήgʂ." yes, but technically, im sure that im not the only person having the problem, eh?
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Posted: Tue Sep 14, 2010 4:08 pm
I'm recovering from being dumped three weeks ago. After almost two weeks after my ex left me, I had another guy (a good friend) flirting with me. I went along, had a great time. Although I was still in "Recovery mode", the flirting was a nice thing to get my mind off the bad experiences and got me to open up and have fun. biggrin
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Posted: Thu Dec 30, 2010 7:38 pm
Thank you. That was great advice. I will admit, I am not good at communicating. I usually make conversations awkward because random things blurt out of my mouth. Also, I thought about what else to do after this, and you should think about what to say before you say it. I've been much more successful after reading this. smile
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Posted: Thu Dec 30, 2010 7:46 pm
I like that you included advice for people currently in relationships. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 2:03 pm
Remember to brush your teeth before you go out. Itès not cute or sexy when you have bits of this and that floating around your mouth and sticking to your teeth.
Hygeine is much loved. ♥
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 2:27 pm
now, I have an interesting question... you see, I don't seem to have any real trouble getting laid most of th etime (though the second half of 2010 was quite a dry-spell for me)... but I've never been able to have an actual date. I've only managed to have successfuly schedualled two o them, and each time I was stood up.
my question is... what could I be doing that gets me treated like this? why is it that people want to sex me, and are physically and emotionally attracted to me... enjoy talking to me and hanging out with me... but never anything in between? how can I get a romance that isn't all naked? how can I get a date?
it just doesn't make sense to me, and I'm upset. sad I don't even know what to think abot this. even when I tell people about this, and how important it is to me, I can't seem to ever actually get a date. it's always either some kind of akward excuse, or they just don't have the time. but somehow I can still get in their pants.
is this a problem that is recognized? is it common? rare? does anybody know why it is, what causes it, or how to remedy it?
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 6:32 pm
Chieftain Twilight now, I have an interesting question... you see, I don't seem to have any real trouble getting laid most of th etime (though the second half of 2010 was quite a dry-spell for me)... but I've never been able to have an actual date. I've only managed to have successfuly schedualled two o them, and each time I was stood up. my question is... what could I be doing that gets me treated like this? why is it that people want to sex me, and are physically and emotionally attracted to me... enjoy talking to me and hanging out with me... but never anything in between? how can I get a romance that isn't all naked? how can I get a date? it just doesn't make sense to me, and I'm upset. sad I don't even know what to think abot this. even when I tell people about this, and how important it is to me, I can't seem to ever actually get a date. it's always either some kind of akward excuse, or they just don't have the time. but somehow I can still get in their pants. is this a problem that is recognized? is it common? rare? does anybody know why it is, what causes it, or how to remedy it? It's difficult to say exactly why that is. Maybe people are attracted to you, sleep with you, then are quickly turned off for whatever reason. Maybe you tend to go after people who just want something casual. Maybe you tend to go after people who don't like to go out much. Maybe it was just a coincidence that you were stood up both times you tried to schedule a date. You could always try scheduling more dates or not having sex quite as early on in the relationship to see what happens.
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 9:56 pm
LorienLlewellyn Chieftain Twilight now, I have an interesting question... you see, I don't seem to have any real trouble getting laid most of th etime (though the second half of 2010 was quite a dry-spell for me)... but I've never been able to have an actual date. I've only managed to have successfuly schedualled two o them, and each time I was stood up. my question is... what could I be doing that gets me treated like this? why is it that people want to sex me, and are physically and emotionally attracted to me... enjoy talking to me and hanging out with me... but never anything in between? how can I get a romance that isn't all naked? how can I get a date? it just doesn't make sense to me, and I'm upset. sad I don't even know what to think abot this. even when I tell people about this, and how important it is to me, I can't seem to ever actually get a date. it's always either some kind of akward excuse, or they just don't have the time. but somehow I can still get in their pants. is this a problem that is recognized? is it common? rare? does anybody know why it is, what causes it, or how to remedy it? It's difficult to say exactly why that is. Maybe people are attracted to you, sleep with you, then are quickly turned off for whatever reason. Maybe you tend to go after people who just want something casual. Maybe you tend to go after people who don't like to go out much. Maybe it was just a coincidence that you were stood up both times you tried to schedule a date. You could always try scheduling more dates or not having sex quite as early on in the relationship to see what happens. It could also be the way you present yourself. Granted I don't sleep with guys that I don't date so I don't know what's in the mind of others who do. But I think trying the slow, old fashioned way would be best. Just try hanging out with someone first. Not a date, just hanging out so you two can see if you like one another and what you both like to do. There is much more to relationships, like the kind you want, other then going on dates.
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 10:37 am
broken_bleeding_angel LorienLlewellyn Chieftain Twilight now, I have an interesting question... you see, I don't seem to have any real trouble getting laid most of th etime (though the second half of 2010 was quite a dry-spell for me)... but I've never been able to have an actual date. I've only managed to have successfuly schedualled two o them, and each time I was stood up. my question is... what could I be doing that gets me treated like this? why is it that people want to sex me, and are physically and emotionally attracted to me... enjoy talking to me and hanging out with me... but never anything in between? how can I get a romance that isn't all naked? how can I get a date? it just doesn't make sense to me, and I'm upset. sad I don't even know what to think abot this. even when I tell people about this, and how important it is to me, I can't seem to ever actually get a date. it's always either some kind of akward excuse, or they just don't have the time. but somehow I can still get in their pants. is this a problem that is recognized? is it common? rare? does anybody know why it is, what causes it, or how to remedy it? It's difficult to say exactly why that is. Maybe people are attracted to you, sleep with you, then are quickly turned off for whatever reason. Maybe you tend to go after people who just want something casual. Maybe you tend to go after people who don't like to go out much. Maybe it was just a coincidence that you were stood up both times you tried to schedule a date. You could always try scheduling more dates or not having sex quite as early on in the relationship to see what happens. It could also be the way you present yourself. Granted I don't sleep with guys that I don't date so I don't know what's in the mind of others who do. But I think trying the slow, old fashioned way would be best. Just try hanging out with someone first. Not a date, just hanging out so you two can see if you like one another and what you both like to do. There is much more to relationships, like the kind you want, other then going on dates. hmmm... interesting advice... you think that'd work? I hated last year, not getting laid sucked so much a**. xp if not having sex so early in a relationship could help me get a date though, it would be worthe it. I know that not alot of people think of Dating as being an important part of a relationship... in fact, aot of folks seem to consider it just a "first step"... but to me, it's very important. because I've never been on one. I feel left out. thankyou both, I'm gonna try this out. I do get thought of alot as a "manwhore"....
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 8:15 pm
Chieftain Twilight broken_bleeding_angel LorienLlewellyn Chieftain Twilight now, I have an interesting question... you see, I don't seem to have any real trouble getting laid most of th etime (though the second half of 2010 was quite a dry-spell for me)... but I've never been able to have an actual date. I've only managed to have successfuly schedualled two o them, and each time I was stood up. my question is... what could I be doing that gets me treated like this? why is it that people want to sex me, and are physically and emotionally attracted to me... enjoy talking to me and hanging out with me... but never anything in between? how can I get a romance that isn't all naked? how can I get a date? it just doesn't make sense to me, and I'm upset. sad I don't even know what to think abot this. even when I tell people about this, and how important it is to me, I can't seem to ever actually get a date. it's always either some kind of akward excuse, or they just don't have the time. but somehow I can still get in their pants. is this a problem that is recognized? is it common? rare? does anybody know why it is, what causes it, or how to remedy it? It's difficult to say exactly why that is. Maybe people are attracted to you, sleep with you, then are quickly turned off for whatever reason. Maybe you tend to go after people who just want something casual. Maybe you tend to go after people who don't like to go out much. Maybe it was just a coincidence that you were stood up both times you tried to schedule a date. You could always try scheduling more dates or not having sex quite as early on in the relationship to see what happens. It could also be the way you present yourself. Granted I don't sleep with guys that I don't date so I don't know what's in the mind of others who do. But I think trying the slow, old fashioned way would be best. Just try hanging out with someone first. Not a date, just hanging out so you two can see if you like one another and what you both like to do. There is much more to relationships, like the kind you want, other then going on dates. hmmm... interesting advice... you think that'd work? I hated last year, not getting laid sucked so much a**. xp if not having sex so early in a relationship could help me get a date though, it would be worthe it. I know that not alot of people think of Dating as being an important part of a relationship... in fact, aot of folks seem to consider it just a "first step"... but to me, it's very important. because I've never been on one. I feel left out. thankyou both, I'm gonna try this out. I do get thought of alot as a "manwhore".... Ok, so I went and asked my one friend about doing guys before dating them and she told me she saw no point in dating him if he was so easy to get in the sack. So, yeah... try what LorienLlewellyn suggested and no snu-snu for a while. I know it sucks but it works.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 11:06 am
broken_bleeding_angel Chieftain Twilight broken_bleeding_angel LorienLlewellyn Chieftain Twilight now, I have an interesting question... you see, I don't seem to have any real trouble getting laid most of th etime (though the second half of 2010 was quite a dry-spell for me)... but I've never been able to have an actual date. I've only managed to have successfuly schedualled two o them, and each time I was stood up. my question is... what could I be doing that gets me treated like this? why is it that people want to sex me, and are physically and emotionally attracted to me... enjoy talking to me and hanging out with me... but never anything in between? how can I get a romance that isn't all naked? how can I get a date? it just doesn't make sense to me, and I'm upset. sad I don't even know what to think abot this. even when I tell people about this, and how important it is to me, I can't seem to ever actually get a date. it's always either some kind of akward excuse, or they just don't have the time. but somehow I can still get in their pants. is this a problem that is recognized? is it common? rare? does anybody know why it is, what causes it, or how to remedy it? It's difficult to say exactly why that is. Maybe people are attracted to you, sleep with you, then are quickly turned off for whatever reason. Maybe you tend to go after people who just want something casual. Maybe you tend to go after people who don't like to go out much. Maybe it was just a coincidence that you were stood up both times you tried to schedule a date. You could always try scheduling more dates or not having sex quite as early on in the relationship to see what happens. It could also be the way you present yourself. Granted I don't sleep with guys that I don't date so I don't know what's in the mind of others who do. But I think trying the slow, old fashioned way would be best. Just try hanging out with someone first. Not a date, just hanging out so you two can see if you like one another and what you both like to do. There is much more to relationships, like the kind you want, other then going on dates. hmmm... interesting advice... you think that'd work? I hated last year, not getting laid sucked so much a**. xp if not having sex so early in a relationship could help me get a date though, it would be worthe it. I know that not alot of people think of Dating as being an important part of a relationship... in fact, aot of folks seem to consider it just a "first step"... but to me, it's very important. because I've never been on one. I feel left out. thankyou both, I'm gonna try this out. I do get thought of alot as a "manwhore".... Ok, so I went and asked my one friend about doing guys before dating them and she told me she saw no point in dating him if he was so easy to get in the sack. So, yeah... try what LorienLlewellyn suggested and no snu-snu for a while. I know it sucks but it works. and the ommn wisdom is that only guys treat girls like that. stare ugh! stressed I feel so used! crying
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Posted: Fri Jan 21, 2011 2:42 pm
A word of advice for those who have been the one to break up the relationship, watch out for nasty thoughts about your ex or just being rude. Like with me, I broke up with my boyfriend at the end of October, and I've had thoughts like "Ew, he looks so weird doing that" and "Oh look, he's acting [insert emotion]. How annoying."
It seems kinda bitchy and improbable that you'll be thinking that way, but just watch yourself, 'kay? It can be really tempting to point out all these things he/she did with you in secret whilst in the relationship, but that's just mean.
And do NOT use your ex as a rebound after another relationship, especially if that other relationship started practically the second you broke up with your ex. It's really nasty, and if you do the drop-him/her-like-that-for-another-girl/boy again, you've betrayed the love of your ex twice. Trust me, I've seen it happen, and it's hard to look at the relationship-jumper the same way.
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Posted: Fri Feb 18, 2011 10:17 am
Another tip for guys:
Always, ALWAYS ask a girl out face-to-face.
It shows that you are confident, and these days, guys
tend to ask a girl out through a text/pm.
It's more meaningful when it's face to face, and when a girl
thinks she has a confident guy in her grasp, more than likely she'll say yes! (and actually mean it too)
Tip for girls:
Don't try to be like one of the guys. Like belching around him
constantly to try to 'impress' him. We aren't primitives.
Belching is the same as farting imo. It's gross, I have acid reflux, so I belch alot- but I try to conceal it.
Or trying to act like you underatand him and his friends inside jokes.
And don't wear alot of make-up around guys, about 95% of women wear make-up, but a little under half cake it on and make themselves look like clowns.
He's judging you. Not your eyeshadow blending techniques.
Another thing I seem to notice alot, girls who 'over-tan'
and girls who wear their pants too tight, which makes their
love handles show. It's disgusting and shows you aren't confident in yourself, or you just don't care.
And guys hate drama. Well, most. Some are drama.
I have tons, and tons of all types of guy friends. I hear their
opinions daily on what they think about girls. So I'm sharing<3
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Posted: Mon Mar 14, 2011 9:51 pm
i learned some new things today (:
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