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                     Posted: Sun Feb 05, 2012 7:04 pm
		     
             
             
             
                    
                        
                            
                                                                    
        
        
        
			            Esiris Things are a little rough.   cat_sweatdrop  Oh no! *huggles* Leo will send happy thoughts your way, and hopefully things get less rough soon.  heart          
        
        
		        
		         
     
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                     Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 11:43 am
		     
             
             
             
                    
                        
                            
                                                                    
        
        
        
			            Leolilac Esiris Things are a little rough.   cat_sweatdrop  Oh no! *huggles* Leo will send happy thoughts your way, and hopefully things get less rough soon.  heart Thanks Leo!          
        
        
		        
		         
     
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                     Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 1:41 am
		     
             
             
             
                    
                        
                            
                                                                    
        
        
        
			            Leo's boyfriend was asking about her being poly tonight. He seems worried.   emotion_facepalm  Leo is now assuring him that she is perfectly fine being monogamous, because it's really not a big pressing issue in her life whether her relationship is poly or mono.         
        
        
		        
		         
     
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                     Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2012 1:23 am
		     
             
             
             
                    
                        
                            
                                                                    
        
        
        
			            Urgh. Leo and her Person had a fight. Well. Not really a fight. She doesn't know what to call it.  gonk  He was all upset because he doesn't think he's being good at the whole D/s thing.  Leo agreed, and pointed out that he's gotten super upset about it before and proceeded to do absolutely nothing to educate himself about it or figure out things he's ok with doing or anything like that. And then he was all "oh well you're the sub, you get the easy job." And then Leo cried. And then Leo decided he wasn't Master until he got his s**t sorted and understood a bit more and worked through his issues with BDSM-y s**t.  Now he's just her Person until they can sort things out because she doesn't wanna call him Master if he doesn't do anything and freaks out about doing anything. And now she kinda feels like s**t.  emo          
        
        
		        
		         
     
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			            cuddles I'm sorry, sweetheart. J's never actually researched [he hates reading long pages, so he says, but he's just fine reading through tens of pages on forums about cars and bikes rolls eyes], so I understand a bit of where you're coming from. It was quite the point of contention between us in the beginning. Now, though, he's more open to actually reading s**t so he has a better idea; and it just isn't as important to me anymore [not that it isn't important, but I've found my priorities shifted when we moved out on our own and had to deal with bills].
  Maybe once everything has cooled off you can talk to him about it?
  I hope everything works out for the best  heart          
        
        
		        
		         
     
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                     Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 8:41 am
		     
             
             
             
                    
                        
                            
                                                                    
        
        
        
			            This is kind of odd- but have you ever heard of Top Training? It's as real as slave training and I think it can be very useful         
        
        
		        
		         
     
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                     Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 11:54 am
		     
             
             
             
                    
                        
                            
                                                                    
        
        
        
			            Esiris This is kind of odd- but have you ever heard of Top Training? It's as real as slave training and I think it can be very useful  No she hasn't. What does it entail?         
        
        
		        
		         
     
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                     Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 12:01 pm
		     
             
             
             
                    
                        
                            
                                                                    
        
        
        
			            Leolilac No she hasn't. What does it entail? Finding a D-type or a switch who is willing to talk and explain, answer questions and sometimes give "homework" for a D to practice with their sub          
        
        
		        
		         
     
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                     Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 1:25 pm
		     
             
             
             
                    
                        
                            
                                                                    
        
        
        
			            Esiris Finding a D-type or a switch who is willing to talk and explain, answer questions and sometimes give "homework" for a D to practice with their sub  Hummm, that could be useful. Leo doesn't know if he'll go for it though. She will talk to him about it.  3nodding          
        
        
		        
		         
     
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                     Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 1:34 pm
		     
             
             
             
                    
                        
                            
                                                                    
        
        
        
			            Leolilac Hummm, that could be useful. Leo doesn't know if he'll go for it though. She will talk to him about it.  3nodding  Whatever happens- I hope it works out.   cat_3nodding          
        
        
		        
		         
     
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                     Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 1:40 pm
		     
             
             
             
                    
                        
                            
                                                                    
        
        
        
			            Esiris Whatever happens- I hope it works out.   cat_3nodding   emotion_hug          
        
        
		        
		         
     
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                     Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 1:41 pm
		     
             
             
             
                    
                        
                            
                                                                    
        
        
        
			            Leolilac Esiris Whatever happens- I hope it works out.   cat_3nodding   emotion_hug   emotion_bigheart          
        
        
		        
		         
     
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                     Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 10:58 pm
		     
             
             
             
                    
                        
                            
                                                                    
        
        
        
			             emotion_hug   I hate the dentist too. My teeth are so wonkily spaced it really hurts to have a cleaning. Your feels, I know them...         
        
        
		        
		         
     
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