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 Posted: Tue Dec 29, 2009 2:31 pm
Portable Asian 
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I'm not even that great with being friends with guys. Most of my friends are girls.
If not all.
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 8:10 pm
Kay I'm lazy so I didn't read thru all the posts, but I've made every mistake in the book so if any of you guys need help just hit me up cuz I'm awesome at giving advice, even if I kinda suck at following my own advice...anyways, thought I would add my favorite quote, hmm maybe I'll make a thread with it as the title? anyways, heart "Love isn't finding the Perfect Person, it's finding an Imperfect Person, and seeing them Perfectly." heart
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 8:11 pm
Pink_Gester Portable Asian
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I'm not even that great with being friends with guys. Most of my friends are girls.
If not all. odd I'm friends with more guys cuz there's less drama with guys haha, but thats just me wink
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Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 9:31 pm
Okay, I have never had a boyfriend, I was home schooled my whole life, which means I never went to public school where you get all this experience. I am just about to start my second year at college, and I would like to start looking for a boyfriend, but I don't know how...
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Posted: Fri Jan 08, 2010 6:33 pm
hello? Does anyone have any advice? If not someone can at least tell me how pathetic I am...
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Posted: Mon Jan 11, 2010 9:10 pm
kgeouge Okay, I have never had a boyfriend, I was home schooled my whole life, which means I never went to public school where you get all this experience. I am just about to start my second year at college, and I would like to start looking for a boyfriend, but I don't know how... Hey-- just find some friends. Sometimes it's best if to have guys as friends instead of boyfriends. Trust me, I should know. But if you think you really end up liking someone then take it slow. sorry-- i suck at advice, but that's mine for you. confused
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 8:28 am
kgeouge Okay, I have never had a boyfriend, I was home schooled my whole life, which means I never went to public school where you get all this experience. I am just about to start my second year at college, and I would like to start looking for a boyfriend, but I don't know how... ▂▂ ▃▃ ▅▅ ▆▆ ████ ▆▆ ▅▅ ▃▃ ▂▂ It's time to stop the killing
I said it's time to stop the stealing
It's time to stop disrespecting our women.  ╔═════════════════════════════════════╗
There's really not a stereotypical way anymore, since
the fifties, but if you have a group of friends you can
always walk about in a nearby mall, hang out at the
movies, so forth.
I understand, somewhat, how you feel though. My
best friend was sheltered with home schooling most
of her life, but she just learned you have to be out
going, and with guys that is easier. The drama isn't there,
so forth.
Get to know a guy first too, if you're only in your second
year and really haven't dated before, then it would be
hectic to just immerse yourself in the dating scene. Get
good guy friends, just talk, hang out, and I really do think
that everything will work out.
╚═════════════════════════════════════╝It's time for us to come home and raise our children
It's time for us, to really mold our communities
It's time for us, not to get hooked up in religion. ▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄
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Posted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 4:40 pm
Yeeaaaah. I'm friends with more girls then boys (only 1 boy. Used to be two) I find more drama in that, but I find comfort in drama. But I like guys. They're all laid back and chill, and that's just what I need sometimes XD -shrug- But that's me.
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Posted: Mon Feb 08, 2010 2:19 am
Be careful, ladies.
Being around a lot of guys automatically makes you "loose", even if you arent. You tend to attract the wrong attention from jealous females and horny males. Then again, if you're the person I'm speaking of, it's probably already happened to you. xp
It's not the same with guys hanging around a lot of ladies, though. That just makes him big playa playa. Or gay. Either is (mostly) acceptable in these times. The only attention he really gets is from horny females (go him!) and jealous boyfriends (lol)
Ah, double standard, how I love you.
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Posted: Tue Feb 09, 2010 7:05 pm
Love just happens in my opinion. Whether you expect it or not, whether you try to find that someone, or meet by coincidence. The question is when =p I'm no expert, nor do i claim to be. Sure you can go flirt, possibly find the right person and maybe have a lasting relationship, but really it just happens. There may be some key things that help compadiblity like common interests, friend introduction, or just some fantasy way of meeting (i did this alot). However, i think feelings for someone just grows on its own. I agree with alot that was said on the front, however it's different for everyone and thus i say love just happens. Dont' rush it, unless that works for you.
As for the whole friend thing. You hang out with people you feel know you best. Male or female, they're still your friends. Nothing is ever so black and white in this world. We all must see the world for what it is, all shades of gray. Anyways that's how this so called "playa," sees things.
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Posted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 8:20 am
hahaha guys...
i have to say even though i have a million friends and most of them are girls i tend to enjoy hanging out with the guys more. they are HALARIOUS and are like brothers to me emo ...... but thats ok for now!
here's some advice that works for me (me applying it to one of my guy friends thats NOT a brother just really really really close....we do some stuff that brothers and sisters should NEVER do blaugh )
Physical Apperance
1) walk down the halls like you're a super model (feet always step in front of each other, swing hips, dont look people in the eyes). yeah it might make you look snobby but it makes you look powerful. and if you are with your friends (they should not walk like you because it makes you loose your power) laugh about stuff and be loud and NOTICABLE. guys want to be with the girl that people notice.
2) allways keep some minty gum in your purse/wallet/pocket/bag. guys hate bad breath (girls do too gentlemen) and it is such a turnoff. dont eat any candy in class because it makes your breath smell worse, mostly after lunch. you can keep a tooth brush and tooth paste in your bag and brush your teeth after lunch, just look out for any extra people that might think your insane. if they walk in on the act (of you cleaning your teeth) and say, 'why the HELL are you brushing your teeth?', then just respond with the truth. 'because i dont want my breath to smell. want some tooth paste?' more than likely they will pause and agree (makeout time in hall?) or say no, you freak and leave. (if they respond negetively just remember my #1 rule: negetivity=shunnation=frowned apon)
3) surrround yourself with guys. makes them jealous!
4) work out. abbs= sexy, strong arms= more abilities. all together means that if you work out you will not be fat and you will not be unhealthily skinny looking.
5) tell everybody you love them even if you hate them. it makes you a nicer person and so then people will look up to you. because if you are rude to people you loose popularity points and gradually end up sitting alone at lunch by the trash cans.
Flirting
1) toy with them. act like you like them one minute and then turn around and like someone else the next. it drives them insane and they LOVE it; you are basically making this a game they'll want to win.
2) ignore them on occasion
3) when they hug you have a look on your face like 'i could have better things to do, but oh well' or maybe even 'ok if you want one', even if you really really are enjoying this
4) if you happen to be sitting on the floor next to them, do the leg thing (bend leg towards chest, point toe, lift leg, then cross leg over other)
Tips on Hugging and Kissing
1) when hugging, girls: wrap arms around his waist
guys: wrap arms around upper back, and hold her tight. makes you a good hugger.
2) hug OFTEN
3) always close your eyes while kissing. otherwise it send the wrong message
4) bite the lip
5) when making out with tongue, spell your name with your tongue (NOT AT SAME TIME!!!)
FYI: i do not kiss my close guyfriend. everything else, however, i do do. xd
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Posted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 4:18 pm
Aeris The Angel of Chaos I decided to pop into this thread for a second to give it a read and I find it bloody hilarious that this was on the first page of it Jais Most people find anorexic skinniness to be unappealing, and being overweight isn't just unattractive, it's unhealthy. Unless you're suffering from a medical condition, being overweight says bad things about your amount of self-control and self-esteem. Don't be tempted to self-medicate with food! There's nothing wrong with eating a brownie to make you feel better, but for goodness' sake don't eat the whole plate! Ask yourself: is the food going to solve the problem that made me depressed? Answer: NO. Not unless you're depressed because you're anorexic--and there are better, healthier ways to gain weight than eating a plate of brownies. Weight really has nothing to do with dating. It goes along with the whole "be yourself ideal". If people dont like you when your overweight there isnt much chance that losing the weight is going to make people adore you. Chances are its because you have the personality "of a fat person" and they dislike it. Its about confidence not looks and if you can fake that your in. (kidding ...kind of). Theres people who prefer all different heights, sizes, and shapes of women so saying overweight ones are unappealing is a sad generalization. Theyre unappealing to YOU. My last boyfriend loved larger girls and you'd be surprised how many men love stick thin girls. It has more to do with your attitude and the way you carry yourself than your appearance. Im chubby and I have no problem finding dates. I do however have problems finding dates that have the same interests as me or arent perverts lol. and as for the brownies comment, it just sounded condescending and pointless and Im not even sure why you mentioned it. Not all overweight people stuff themselves full of cake and bacon all day. I'm overweight, and I don't eat food all day. I'm been fat since my younger years, and no matter what I try, I can't lose weight. I really don't mind being fat, minus the problems that can grow from obesity. And I care what people think of me, especially girls. Well...I just hope she looks past my difference. I'm a decent looking guy. I have a great personality. She laughs at my jokes and everything, so that's good, right? I just don't have the nerve to ask her out.
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Posted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 11:53 pm
__DX__4__Lyfe__- Aeris The Angel of Chaos I decided to pop into this thread for a second to give it a read and I find it bloody hilarious that this was on the first page of it Jais Most people find anorexic skinniness to be unappealing, and being overweight isn't just unattractive, it's unhealthy. Unless you're suffering from a medical condition, being overweight says bad things about your amount of self-control and self-esteem. Don't be tempted to self-medicate with food! There's nothing wrong with eating a brownie to make you feel better, but for goodness' sake don't eat the whole plate! Ask yourself: is the food going to solve the problem that made me depressed? Answer: NO. Not unless you're depressed because you're anorexic--and there are better, healthier ways to gain weight than eating a plate of brownies. Weight really has nothing to do with dating. It goes along with the whole "be yourself ideal". If people dont like you when your overweight there isnt much chance that losing the weight is going to make people adore you. Chances are its because you have the personality "of a fat person" and they dislike it. Its about confidence not looks and if you can fake that your in. (kidding ...kind of). Theres people who prefer all different heights, sizes, and shapes of women so saying overweight ones are unappealing is a sad generalization. Theyre unappealing to YOU. My last boyfriend loved larger girls and you'd be surprised how many men love stick thin girls. It has more to do with your attitude and the way you carry yourself than your appearance. Im chubby and I have no problem finding dates. I do however have problems finding dates that have the same interests as me or arent perverts lol. and as for the brownies comment, it just sounded condescending and pointless and Im not even sure why you mentioned it. Not all overweight people stuff themselves full of cake and bacon all day. I'm overweight, and I don't eat food all day. I'm been fat since my younger years, and no matter what I try, I can't lose weight. I really don't mind being fat, minus the problems that can grow from obesity. And I care what people think of me, especially girls. Well...I just hope she looks past my difference. I'm a decent looking guy. I have a great personality. She laughs at my jokes and everything, so that's good, right? I just don't have the nerve to ask her out. personally i dont care what shape a person is. I know there is no such thing as perfect. I am pretty certain that there is a girl out there who will like you just as you are. Even if that isnt the girl isnt the one you want now. I think you should ask her out to a movie or something. if its something you will regret not doing then i think you should try.
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Posted: Thu Apr 15, 2010 6:27 am
this is really helpful!!!
I have something to add, if not already added. With an ex, honesty is the best policy. Keep on being friends- see other guys/girls (not any of their close friends though- that really pisses them off) and never show interest, even if you have it. It always hurts you in the end.
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Posted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 1:55 pm
How long should I wait after getting a cute girls number before texting or calling her? She is gonna be gone for the weekend so that is what makes this imperative.
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