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 Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 11:02 am
It's always good to express your feelings. ^^
There's someone I know, that broke up with her boyfriend because she felt as though he didn't care enough, when in reality, he cared a lot more than she knew.
Rejection is scary, of course! It's like getting up on stage and singing. Much easier in your head than the actual thing. And yeah...the whole friend thing is complicated. It's hard to have a friendship again if things go wrong and...well, you never quite feel the same, do you? But yes. Chances are there to be taken, otherwise you won't know what could have happened.
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 11:07 am
Hiicomo It's always good to express your feelings. ^^ There's someone I know, that broke up with her boyfriend because she felt as though he didn't care enough, when in reality, he cared a lot more than she knew. Rejection is scary, of course! It's like getting up on stage and singing. Much easier in your head than the actual thing. And yeah...the whole friend thing is complicated. It's hard to have a friendship again if things go wrong and...well, you never quite feel the same, do you? But yes. Chances are there to be taken, otherwise you won't know what could have happened. yeah thats what i think also. the problems become infintly complex when trying to deal with a crush on a friend. i usually tend to stay quiet and if they like me they can say... but i tent do wait till i know it will be ok to say before doing so. However it does mean i am emotionally screwed as im always afraid of what to say and when lol. the other problem i have is im horrably self concious so i constantly worry and end up getting into horrable panics. im better these days though, it used to be terrable, now im able to voice feelings better. still doesnt help in some situations though. -w0w that was a ramble and a half, i dont even think that made sense?
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 11:16 am
Lol. Well, I understood it fine, no worries. I think part of what makes crushing on a friend so complex is the fact that you don't quite know where that friendship line ends and you step into the other zone. ^^;;
What to say and when...well, I always find just being honest and doing it spontaneously is the best. After all, there might never be a right time, place, or even the right thing to say in some situations! biggrin
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 11:27 am
Omochii Lol. Well, I understood it fine, no worries. I think part of what makes crushing on a friend so complex is the fact that you don't quite know where that friendship line ends and you step into the other zone. ^^;; What to say and when...well, I always find just being honest and doing it spontaneously is the best. After all, there might never be a right time, place, or even the right thing to say in some situations! biggrin i understand what your saying. still, i value my friendships and stuff with people over anything else practically. to loose any of that to a crush would hurt a lot. still, spontanious is good in some situations. it just needs approaching more carefully with friends i feel.
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 11:41 am
FleshandBlood Omochii Lol. Well, I understood it fine, no worries. I think part of what makes crushing on a friend so complex is the fact that you don't quite know where that friendship line ends and you step into the other zone. ^^;; What to say and when...well, I always find just being honest and doing it spontaneously is the best. After all, there might never be a right time, place, or even the right thing to say in some situations! biggrin i understand what your saying. still, i value my friendships and stuff with people over anything else practically. to loose any of that to a crush would hurt a lot. still, spontanious is good in some situations. it just needs approaching more carefully with friends i feel. *Nodnod* I understand and yes, that's another thing that makes it so complex. It's hard to measure exactly how much you crush on someone...at least, that's what I've thought anyway ^^;; I agree though. With friends [especially close ones] a little more care would probably do a lot of good, as spontaneous outbursts can most probably lead to disastrous consequences. O_O;;
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 4:17 pm
True,but it depends on the situation.I know at least a few people that have broken out spontaniously and told someone that they like a friend,and they'd be together for a long time. ninja But just make sure that it's not that spontaniously loud....
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 10:23 pm
*angsts*
There. That's out of my system.
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 10:27 pm
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 10:27 pm
burning_eyes AAAAAAGGGGHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!
Ah. Much better.
It's easier posting something when I'm angry than throwing my computer mouse. That's a bad habit I got from playing Halo, throwing the controller on the floor every time I died. I killed my mouse yesterday. Killed it dead.
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 4:24 am
liquid06 It's easier posting something when I'm angry than throwing my computer mouse. That's a bad habit I got from playing Halo, throwing the controller on the floor every time I died. I killed my mouse yesterday. Killed it dead. yeah its always better to express through words... my brother throws things and often ends up killing one of my controllers. however i mearly shout at him, throwing things means more money to buy new ones. well done for venting here razz smile
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 4:43 pm
Man, I hate my job and I wish I could get something better... I hate it, but I have to go to work tonight. Am I really so skilless that no one else will take me?
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 4:58 pm
Well, what have you already tried applying for Indigo? ^^
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 5:05 pm
=____=; I just love helping people with love advice.
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 5:09 pm
Silver Hellsing =____=; I just love helping people with love advice. ^^;; The sarcasm is evidenced and acknowledged. Hope you're not angsting too much.
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 5:15 pm
Omochii Silver Hellsing =____=; I just love helping people with love advice. ^^;; The sarcasm is evidenced and acknowledged. Hope you're not angsting too much.
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