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"I'm sure you will." says Tam kindly. "Until then, remember... it is best not to force another, but if they wish for you to share with them, be gentle. This sharing we are talking about is not a game where one must prove how virile they are to another." He rinses his hair and climbs out of the tub, wrapping himself in a bath towel. "Help me dump this outside and we'll get a bath going fer you, ok?"

Tam chuckles. "Yeah, I guess that would be what I mean. Remember now, I haven't done much of this myself... but I've lived a long life and as a bard, I hear much. It is surprising what people tell you when they are down in their cups."

"Only this... in the books and from what I've learned... the best lover is one who cares for his partner more than he cares for himself... It is an important secret that many males seem to forget." laughs Tam quietly.

"Then ask them, silly. Remember this... the only foolish question is the one that doesn't get asked." says Tam pouring hot water into the cat's bath. "Let me cool that down a bit before ye crawl in or ye'll be sporting another color." he warns fetching a pan of cold water from the stream.

Tam turns around and looks at him, laughing. "Now I know why ye never get fleas. Ye boil them off."

Tam asks if he needs anything. "If not, dulcha, I'm going to sit by the fire. I need to comb out this mop and get it dry before I go to bed. Give a yell when ye need to dump it and I'll come give ye a hand."

Tam comes in to give him a hand, He has partially dressed, pulling on a pair of soft trousers, more meant for lounging than wearing out of doors. He grabs one side of the heavy tub and helps Kero pull it outside. His hair has been pulled back into a tight braid which makes his thin angular face even more austere than usual, accenting his odd cat slitted eyes and tapered ears. There is no way, barring the presence of the wings, that anyone seeing him now would think of him as human. At first glance one might think elven, but the longer one looks at him, the more differences they would see, such as the length of his toes and the claws he has instead of nails. Which is probably why he doesn't wear it that way very often. One thing in for certain, there isn't an ounce of fat on him, no padding whatsoever. No wonder he bruises so easily.