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 Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2009 12:56 pm
Nenoka Well, I live in the south and I can't exacly be myself. I'm surrounded by hard core babtists and rednecks most of the time, So it's not easy sneaking into a Gothic Oufit around here without someone giving you strange looks. And now that everyone likes sticking there nose into my personal life, people wont stop making fun of me becuase I like Japan and the Japanese than I do Americans. I just want to be myself! Is it to much to ask? I can't wait to get out of this town and finish my Japanese lessons so I can move. LOL i feel you to the bottom of my heart. I live in Texas and half the grown ups I know thing i'm crazy..the first time I dressed up Lolita my family laughed so hard they hadtears coming out their eyes...not to mention the church people. They asked my parents if I was on some kind of medication. As for school... I didn't have many incidents because all of my friends were a bunch of nuts that probably should of been in the mental ward for the safety of the public. I laugh everytime I think of the peoples faces when they saw what we did.
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Posted: Tue Jun 02, 2009 12:01 pm
__Tippy Totoro I really don't see what's wrong with wearing a tiara. Anyways, I wore this really cute dress my parents actually let me buy (i'm not allowed to post pics though) and a maid's headband to school one day, and everyone was like, "You're such a goth. You poser." The worst was when the most idiotic person stomped on my books on the ground saying things like, "Go back to the circus! You don't belong with normal people," It's really sad things like this happen just because people want to be original, stand out a little, and be able to say, "I'm different!" Aw, I feel sad for you! That's awful. ;_;
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Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 6:43 am
I've never been accused of anything because I've always sucked up to adults.
Once, however.
Some old lady called me a "damn freakish slut" for wearing punk clothes.
I never show any skin in any of my outfits. Needless to say, I called her a hag and pointed towards girls in booty shorts and told her to get some glasses.
I ain't no slut.
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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 6:55 pm
I feel terrible for everyone in this thread. sad I've been to two schools, since I started wearing my dresses out in public... The first school had a uniform policy, but I was able to mix it up a little bit, with a petticoat under my skirt, and stockings. I was picked on a little bit, but if you just ignore it, they get tired of trying. The second school thought my dresses were cute. D: Since I left, I've had people look me up on MySpace to ask me where they can get, "a dress like that ONE you wore on that ONE day." xd But, I hope that everyone stays safe, and that they aren't picked on too terribly... Sadly, it's the modern price for being different.
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Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2009 12:20 pm
wow, my heart go out to each one who suffered cry
My situation isn't so bad...out in public most people tell me that I'm cute. But my dad tells to to "Stop dressing up and start growing up"
I become more worn out everytime I wear something thats not T-shirt or jeans. Even when I wore a Kimono to a Japanse Festival, my dad said "You're not Japanse! Why do you need to dress up?"
I wonder if he understands that I like to dress Lolita than dressing in an outfit that shows a lot of skin....
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Posted: Thu Oct 01, 2009 5:02 pm
Thats so sad!Yeah my parents dont understand why I dress lolita either so I just tell them im trying to be more feminine. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 12:50 pm
I used to go to homeschool academy every week at at my church. Every single person was exactly the same and where incredibly boring. I made a friend who liked indie and techno music just like me on the first day and she had awesome braclets. So we where always together there at school, me always in skirts and she in all her black. Everyone totally called us sluts.. and well never had a date at this point so was stupid. We both finally got out there and went to public where everyone was so much more supportive...Though i did turn some snobs tables over before lunch one time hehe heart
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Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 8:37 am
88wii Thats so sad!Yeah my parents dont understand why I dress lolita either so I just tell them im trying to be more feminine. 3nodding I think its more because my father expected me to be more tomboyish (which I am sometimes) I think he wanted a first born son but oh well....I'm a girl and here to stay ^_^
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Posted: Sun Nov 29, 2009 8:38 am
I didn't have any friends my senior year of High School because I like anime. I also am really shy and sit and read books all day. I had uniforms at my school and I liked goth stuff but I didn't have the money to buy it then. So, I didn't have that problem. Now, I have friends and go to a college where people are pretty accepting of others and I dress "regular" (jeans/t-shirt/sweaters/etc.) usually because I don't have that many lolita/goth clothes yet. crying
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Posted: Sun Nov 29, 2009 5:14 pm
My friend and I did a project, in anthro class, on this. She dressed up very professional and lovely looking, and I wore a very hardcore, visual kei outfit. We went downtown, and walked on seperate sides of the street so people wouldn't know we were together. People were very nice to my friend, while everybody gave me rather unfriendly looks. I went into a store, and the person who worked there watched me the whole time. If I moved out of her line of vision, she would move to be able to see me. It was all very interresting. o:
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Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 5:29 pm
fiaria Ive gotten looked down apon because of my "lolita" complex/ attitude. I dont belive in making friends with just anyone, especialy if we have no common interests. Friends are nice, but I dnot NEED them. I am perfectly fine alone, so I stand alone alot in some casses with people I have no intention of making conversation with, and you know what they do!? They call me Emo because I like being alone.... heloooo Im like making daisy chains in the school feild while our PE class is playing soft ball and they call me EMO!!! Ive never been so outraged!
*Just reading through*
That happens to me so many times you don't even know. . .
They even call my dresses emo, apparently. HOW on EARTH are little gothic princess dresses and pink hair EMO? They don't have emotions. neutral
I dislike people. Strongly. I have nothing in common with almost all of them.
Aside from family who accepts me, I only like my best friend and my boyfriend. Everyone else I block out. So the jocks make fun of me.
It's not my fault I think the way you toss your dumb ball around and yell and punch the other guys is completely barbaric and the way you act disgust me. And I'm sorry I don't want to dress like your slutty girlfriends who are ALL sleeping with all of your football buddies and probably the coach too. And I'm sorry I won't do your drugs.
except no. NO I'M NOT. XD
I rather be a princess. You can suck it.
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