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 Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 5:19 pm
i don't think age is that important.
i dated a guy would was 25 while i was just 16.
if you really like him then you should continue dating him.
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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 5:30 pm
If it was love and it is still there then u don't have many chances to find it again now do u?
If it was lust then if it was good lust then that could always be a friend with benefits.
but it is ur decision to weigh the lie against what ur feeling.
Personally I have gone up to 26
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Posted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 11:38 am
the big question is - do you love him.
wisdom does not come with age, remember that
although they're are a few exceptions for me, if someone else was doing it than that's them but for me if i was like 20 an dating a 67 year old guy - i'd be a little grossed out, no, no make that a lot.
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Posted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 12:47 pm
Eh,love is love. Age doesn't matter.
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Posted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 3:23 pm
my ex is 16 an im 18, it would have woked except he is looking for highschool fun relationships and im thinking of moving out and gettinh hitched, meaning it could work out but it will be hard
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 10:34 am
Look,now I know that I'm new here and I don't even know you but I would really like to help you.I was 17 when I met my current boyfriend.He was turning 16 back then.I'm telling you this because it's not the age that matters.If you like this boy then why shouldn't you be with him?Love just happens,it needs no reason.
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 3:24 pm
The age doesn't bother me at all. Actually, anyone with more than a 3 year difference and at least 1 person is a minor is what is illegal here in California.
The fact that you had sex with him and than finding this out is sick. I think you need to actually know the person really well before even thinking of that. Pre-maritial sex is probably one of the few issues I kinda agree with the majority of Christains on.
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 5:53 pm
I say noooo! Legally, he's jail-bait. But your 16, I think you would get in trouble if you were 17 sleeping with a 14 yr old. But he lied to you once, do you trust him enough not to lie to you again? Remember, he's 14 & he will most likely act like it.
Girls mature faster than boys. & what your looking for in a relationship, may not be what he's looking for. He's younger & still tring out new things. Ask your self, "Do I really care for him like that?" "Does he?"
Nobody ever wants to get hurt in a relationship, especialy if it went that far, But the fact of the matter is, Every person you date, you will ether break up with them, or marry them. In the end, it's really yor choice. I don't believe you did any thing wrong. It was he who lied to you.
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 6:11 pm
stressed ummm yer i wouldn't... just for the fact ( and i don't know if this applies to where you live but it does to where we live) but isn't there some kind of consent thinger? and he did lie to you did he not? but i suppose it does all lie in whether or not you like him or not... all i can say is :
GOOD LUCK
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Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 9:44 am
It's only two years, not ten... but still, should u really be sexing up a 14 year old? it all depends on what ur relationship is, not your ages... i guess... yeah... ish...
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Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 11:55 am
mee_shee the big question is - do you love him. wisdom does not come with age, remember that although they're are a few exceptions for me, if someone else was doing it than that's them but for me if i was like 20 an dating a 67 year old guy - i'd be a little grossed out, no, no make that a lot. yes I do love him!!!!!
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Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 12:25 pm
if you love him stay with him...i was 13 when i met my boyfriend that i have now...he was turning 18..im now 14 and he is 18...over here in ireland...that is illegal...but only if we have had sex... i love him with all my heart and wouldnt give him up for anything...i knwo he would do anything for me and wait an eternity for me aswell..this is how i feel about your situation aswell...stay with him if it makes YOU happy!
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Posted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 11:55 am
I'd say if you love him, than stay with him and enjoy the relationship. Just remember that he did lie to you about his age (and weither people want to admit it or not, there is a big difference between 14 and 16. Not so much between 18 and 20 or 20 and 22, or even 16 and 18...but there is a big difference between 14 and 16 typically). And that might tell a lot about him there and than.
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Posted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 1:43 pm
Frankly 2 years difference I don't think is that big of an issue. On the other hand I think having sex at that age is, but I'm not really one to talk. Either way I'll just leave it there. What's right and wrong to you is your descision and only you can make it.
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