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 Posted: Sat Aug 12, 2006 7:25 pm
lifeisborin Love is great!!! but its soo painful.... this is a fact and will neva change. awwww that is so sad sad
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Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 10:58 am
Second-In-Command-Of-Hell Kat = Intelligent.
XDDD
domokun haha, wow...thanks xd
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Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 11:02 am
EndlessDark Second-In-Command-Of-Hell Kat = Intelligent.
XDDD
domokun haha, wow...thanks xd
You're welcome!
n.n
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 6:34 am
And the little girl says -
-blinks-
You are all going at it wrong.
Love is not an emotion. Its an addiction. There are chemicals in your brain that tell you you love some one. It makes you laugh around them, smile and just generally happy. Its the other emotions that are really love. The worry, the doubt, the fear. Oh.. and the happy one. Yet how often do you actually feel happiness? For those few moments you are with said person. How long does that last though..? Any where to a few hours, to a few minutes. And what do you spend that time doing..? Holding each other, cuddling, having sex. Touching in some sort of way, to make those chemicals go off in your brain.
But realize when you aren't with the one you supposedly 'love' you constantly worry, and fret. You are terrified they don't love you any more. That they are going to leave you, and not come back. Its call withdrawl. It drives us insane to go through withdrawl. We generally want to sleep alot, and have little energy for any thing. But once the thought of the other one coming back, you suddenly feel a jolt of energy. Those happy chemicals again.
Sometimes this addiction is so strong between people they think they need to get married. So the other is always close enough to just turn the drug back on. To make those happy chemicals come back.
Those this supposed 'true love' some what exists. Its when there is a strong chemical reaction, and they also match personality wise. Nothing will come between them just to feel that chemical in their brains. And at that thought of loosing the one they 'truely love' they would do anything, and I mean anything to make sure they stay close.
So in my conclusing humans just use each other to get that happy chemical going in their brains. So while you might think being a prostitute is wrong, or actually enjoying the company of one. It really isn't. See.. those people are smart, and have actually achieved a way to feel slight bliss without th doubt, the fear, and the worry. They enjoy themselves to the fullest without getting emotionally damaged.
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Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2006 7:25 am
Love is great. You have a feeling of nervousness, excitment and fear in all one feeling. It's indescribable! ( I totally spelt that wrong! Sorry!) Anyway, i love bein in love. It's a remarkable thing. I have been in love with the same guy for almost three years. heart biggrin heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart
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Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2006 11:23 am
xXFirewOrkS FLYxO Love is great. You have a feeling of nervousness, excitment and fear in all one feeling. It's indescribable! ( I totally spelt that wrong! Sorry!) Anyway, i love bein in love. It's a remarkable thing. I have been in love with the same guy for almost three years. heart biggrin heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart 3 years? wow that's great! congrats! I've been with my bf a year a half..almost xp
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 4:28 pm
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 5:18 pm
Neduls And the little girl says -
-blinks-
You are all going at it wrong.
Love is not an emotion. Its an addiction. There are chemicals in your brain that tell you you love some one. It makes you laugh around them, smile and just generally happy. Its the other emotions that are really love. The worry, the doubt, the fear. Oh.. and the happy one. Yet how often do you actually feel happiness? For those few moments you are with said person. How long does that last though..? Any where to a few hours, to a few minutes. And what do you spend that time doing..? Holding each other, cuddling, having sex. Touching in some sort of way, to make those chemicals go off in your brain.
But realize when you aren't with the one you supposedly 'love' you constantly worry, and fret. You are terrified they don't love you any more. That they are going to leave you, and not come back. Its call withdrawl. It drives us insane to go through withdrawl. We generally want to sleep alot, and have little energy for any thing. But once the thought of the other one coming back, you suddenly feel a jolt of energy. Those happy chemicals again.
Sometimes this addiction is so strong between people they think they need to get married. So the other is always close enough to just turn the drug back on. To make those happy chemicals come back.
Those this supposed 'true love' some what exists. Its when there is a strong chemical reaction, and they also match personality wise. Nothing will come between them just to feel that chemical in their brains. And at that thought of loosing the one they 'truely love' they would do anything, and I mean anything to make sure they stay close.
So in my conclusing humans just use each other to get that happy chemical going in their brains. So while you might think being a prostitute is wrong, or actually enjoying the company of one. It really isn't. See.. those people are smart, and have actually achieved a way to feel slight bliss without th doubt, the fear, and the worry. They enjoy themselves to the fullest without getting emotionally damaged. I'd say what a skewed vision of the world you have... but seems to be the commonly held belief... seems to me more like you're describing lust and not love... then again the world today generally doesn't differentiate between the two... and while you are right that there's a chemical in one's brain that can be addictive when dealing with love or lust... the same can be said about any number of things... even pain... after all the brain runs on chemical and electrical signals... any number of which may cause an addictive high... sexual orgasms just happen to be one of the most effective... but that is most deffinently not the same as love... ninja
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 5:52 pm
Cycopaethic Neduls And the little girl says -
-blinks-
You are all going at it wrong.
Love is not an emotion. Its an addiction. There are chemicals in your brain that tell you you love some one. It makes you laugh around them, smile and just generally happy. Its the other emotions that are really love. The worry, the doubt, the fear. Oh.. and the happy one. Yet how often do you actually feel happiness? For those few moments you are with said person. How long does that last though..? Any where to a few hours, to a few minutes. And what do you spend that time doing..? Holding each other, cuddling, having sex. Touching in some sort of way, to make those chemicals go off in your brain.
But realize when you aren't with the one you supposedly 'love' you constantly worry, and fret. You are terrified they don't love you any more. That they are going to leave you, and not come back. Its call withdrawl. It drives us insane to go through withdrawl. We generally want to sleep alot, and have little energy for any thing. But once the thought of the other one coming back, you suddenly feel a jolt of energy. Those happy chemicals again.
Sometimes this addiction is so strong between people they think they need to get married. So the other is always close enough to just turn the drug back on. To make those happy chemicals come back.
Those this supposed 'true love' some what exists. Its when there is a strong chemical reaction, and they also match personality wise. Nothing will come between them just to feel that chemical in their brains. And at that thought of loosing the one they 'truely love' they would do anything, and I mean anything to make sure they stay close.
So in my conclusing humans just use each other to get that happy chemical going in their brains. So while you might think being a prostitute is wrong, or actually enjoying the company of one. It really isn't. See.. those people are smart, and have actually achieved a way to feel slight bliss without th doubt, the fear, and the worry. They enjoy themselves to the fullest without getting emotionally damaged. I'd say what a skewed vision of the world you have... but seems to be the commonly held belief... seems to me more like you're describing lust and not love... then again the world today generally doesn't differentiate between the two... and while you are right that there's a chemical in one's brain that can be addictive when dealing with love or lust... the same can be said about any number of things... even pain... after all the brain runs on chemical and electrical signals... any number of which may cause an addictive high... sexual orgasms just happen to be one of the most effective... but that is most deffinently not the same as love... ninja Dangit, Dr. Paethic. She's talking about intimacy, not love or lust. Through intimacy comes lust, and people confuse that with love. Happy? Thought so. But to be "In love" would just mean being a benevolent person. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 6:36 am
Neduls And the little girl says -
-blinks-
You are all going at it wrong.
Love is not an emotion. Its an addiction. There are chemicals in your brain that tell you you love some one. It makes you laugh around them, smile and just generally happy. Its the other emotions that are really love. The worry, the doubt, the fear. Oh.. and the happy one. Yet how often do you actually feel happiness? For those few moments you are with said person. How long does that last though..? Any where to a few hours, to a few minutes. And what do you spend that time doing..? Holding each other, cuddling, having sex. Touching in some sort of way, to make those chemicals go off in your brain.
But realize when you aren't with the one you supposedly 'love' you constantly worry, and fret. You are terrified they don't love you any more. That they are going to leave you, and not come back. Its call withdrawl. It drives us insane to go through withdrawl. We generally want to sleep alot, and have little energy for any thing. But once the thought of the other one coming back, you suddenly feel a jolt of energy. Those happy chemicals again.
Sometimes this addiction is so strong between people they think they need to get married. So the other is always close enough to just turn the drug back on. To make those happy chemicals come back.
Those this supposed 'true love' some what exists. Its when there is a strong chemical reaction, and they also match personality wise. Nothing will come between them just to feel that chemical in their brains. And at that thought of loosing the one they 'truely love' they would do anything, and I mean anything to make sure they stay close.
So in my conclusing humans just use each other to get that happy chemical going in their brains. So while you might think being a prostitute is wrong, or actually enjoying the company of one. It really isn't. See.. those people are smart, and have actually achieved a way to feel slight bliss without th doubt, the fear, and the worry. They enjoy themselves to the fullest without getting emotionally damaged. Awww, I'm so proud of you whee heart heart heart But you're a little off, yes... And I'm not going to get into it, or I'd have to write twice as much as you just did e.e; Oh, and the conditions you just mentioned are "Attachment behaviour" and "Separation anxiety" 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 6:33 am
i couldnt agree more heart _ heart
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Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 1:57 pm
lonely_white_rose i couldnt agree more heart _ heart *sigh* Not another one.
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Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 4:32 pm
Love is great when you get it right...
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Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 9:13 am
I disagree with that huge post up there lol..it's a chemical yes..the good feeling loves gives us is caused by chemicals..but why then...do we not feel this chemical with every person of the opposite sex...why is it just the one person...the "soulmate" who you feel that with??
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Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 11:05 am
And the little girl says -
Wow. I forgot I wrote that.
Cyco - Throughout that I was not speaking of lust. I was speaking of what I know, going through those emotions today. Granted, my experience is little compared to others.
And yes, to some pain feels great. I've always enjoyed pain more than the soft touch of a human, but thats just how I work.
Proto - Thank you Proto, for sticking up for me.
Sabes - Yes, I look back at this now, and I know Im off, but that just proves Im still learning correct? I still have a lot to learn to know as much as any of you do. But then I am younger than you guys. About a week or so ago I wrote another segment on Love, not even thinking of this. If you want, I can always post it in my journal.
Shadow Dweller - Thats easy. We let our vainity warp our mind. When we view some one as less than perfect, we want nothing to do with them. We don't want to give up the precious thing we treasure; our body.
And I have yet to come across only one person that gives me that chemical feeling, or a person of the opposite sex. Many guys have made those chemicals go off in my brain with only the lightest of touches, and yet just being around certain female compains of mine that chemical never ceases.
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