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Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2012 11:54 am
I honestly don't see any reason to be bothered about the size of the p***s. When they're flaccid they all look kind of small, but then they look cute like a little animal, but then when they're erect . . . looking at them usually just turns me on, as opposed to making me reach for my ruler.
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2012 4:23 pm
I'd like to add something I've come to learn from my previous sexcapades, especially since I started on Gaia reading forum posts like this since before I lost my virginity.
You will read a lot that your size doesn't matter - it's how you use it that counts. That is correct, but I tend to notice, at least where I lived in college, a lot of men on the smaller side would say "yeah it's shorter but I know how to use it" and they did NOT know how to use it. How to use it does NOT mean sticking it in really fast for 3 minutes and then squirting. Shameful, guys! For anyone worrying and reading these forums, DON'T DO THAT. I know that should go without saying, but SOME PEOPLE...
Learn your body, learn your techniques, learn which hand is better at what, learn the ways in which your tongue can bend as well as using suction, your nose, other errogenous zones - it's not just about the v****a. (This is true for both sexes! So many zones on a man's body - don't just ignore them in favor of the p***s.)
Also, you probably already know this, but like I said from a semester full of disappointing sexcapades I feel I should mention this, using substances, even legal ones can really put a damper on coordination, stamina, potency, your willpower to pull through and finish the night. I would suggest avoiding them unless absolutely necessary (some antidepressants and other medication can have an effect on libido.)
To note: in my experience the men who have been the best in bed were the ones who also upheld long term relationships, 4 years or more. If you can keep your woman pleased for that long, you must've really learned something.
So... don't just read this thread and say "oh ok as long as I use it well, size doesn't matter." Actually LEARN to use it well, boys.
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2012 10:47 am
Size matters. It's not the end of the world, but it does.
The average is roughly 14cm
Bigger is better.
But that doesn't mean anyone below average should feel underaccomplished or bad or anything similar to this.
It's just how it is.
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2012 10:48 am
Oh, also, race stereotype is bullshit.
I don't believe all blacks are bigger and all asians are smaller.
Sure there is SOME truth behind this, but not literally ALL asiand and ALL blacks.
Certain parts yes, just as certain PARTS of whites are bigger than blacks etc. etc.
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 10:53 am
SinfulPanda Size matters. It's not the end of the world, but it does. The average is roughly 14cm Bigger is better. But that doesn't mean anyone below average should feel underaccomplished or bad or anything similar to this. It's just how it is. Size doesnt matter In fact, girls can only feel a few inches inside Im going to guess that i can only feel around 2 inches inside of me, even tho my boyfriend is around 7 inches when hes hard Larger doesnt mean better either If he thrusts too hard/deep and hits my cervix, it HURTS Im not saying id want his smaller (nor bigger) But if it were, i wouldnt care Smaller just means we could be less careful about hurting me And larger would just mean being more careful not to be too rough Tldr; It really doesnt matter how large a mans p***s is If it works, then its perfect :3
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 10:58 am
xChibi Cannibalx SinfulPanda Size matters. It's not the end of the world, but it does. The average is roughly 14cm Bigger is better. But that doesn't mean anyone below average should feel underaccomplished or bad or anything similar to this. It's just how it is. Size doesnt matter In fact, girls can only feel a few inches inside Im going to guess that i can only feel around 2 inches inside of me, even tho my boyfriend is around 7 inches when hes hard Larger doesnt mean better either If he thrusts too hard/deep and hits my cervix, it HURTS Im not saying id want his smaller (nor bigger) But if it were, i wouldnt care Smaller just means we could be less careful about hurting me And larger would just mean being more careful not to be too rough Tldr; It really doesnt matter how large a mans p***s is If it works, then its perfect :3 Well that's your opinion and I guess some are different. But I've never met a girl that isn't appreciative of size. Small is fine. Average is fine. But I believe bigger is better. The v****a is longer than a few inches lol. If you can't feel past 2 then perhaps something is wrong :S?
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 11:01 am
cabbage3 I'd like to add something I've come to learn from my previous sexcapades, especially since I started on Gaia reading forum posts like this since before I lost my virginity.
You will read a lot that your size doesn't matter - it's how you use it that counts. That is correct, but I tend to notice, at least where I lived in college, a lot of men on the smaller side would say "yeah it's shorter but I know how to use it" and they did NOT know how to use it. How to use it does NOT mean sticking it in really fast for 3 minutes and then squirting. Shameful, guys! For anyone worrying and reading these forums, DON'T DO THAT. I know that should go without saying, but SOME PEOPLE...
Learn your body, learn your techniques, learn which hand is better at what, learn the ways in which your tongue can bend as well as using suction, your nose, other errogenous zones - it's not just about the v****a. (This is true for both sexes! So many zones on a man's body - don't just ignore them in favor of the p***s.)
Also, you probably already know this, but like I said from a semester full of disappointing sexcapades I feel I should mention this, using substances, even legal ones can really put a damper on coordination, stamina, potency, your willpower to pull through and finish the night. I would suggest avoiding them unless absolutely necessary (some antidepressants and other medication can have an effect on libido.)
To note: in my experience the men who have been the best in bed were the ones who also upheld long term relationships, 4 years or more. If you can keep your woman pleased for that long, you must've really learned something.
So... don't just read this thread and say "oh ok as long as I use it well, size doesn't matter." Actually LEARN to use it well, boys. I feel this came off kind of rude Just because a guy finishes fast doesnt mean anything And size definately doesnt have to do with how fast you finish My boyfriend is close to 7 inches and he can last anywhere between a few minutes, to, i think the longest was an hour and a half It just depends how fast we both want to finish If both want it done fast and simple, theres no shame in that cat_3nodding And even if he wanted it done fast but she didnt, it doesnt mean he should be shamed at all It is hard to control when youre going to finish after all So take it as a compliment - Youre just so hot, he couldnt help himself
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 11:06 am
SinfulPanda xChibi Cannibalx SinfulPanda Size matters. It's not the end of the world, but it does. The average is roughly 14cm Bigger is better. But that doesn't mean anyone below average should feel underaccomplished or bad or anything similar to this. It's just how it is. Size doesnt matter In fact, girls can only feel a few inches inside Im going to guess that i can only feel around 2 inches inside of me, even tho my boyfriend is around 7 inches when hes hard Larger doesnt mean better either If he thrusts too hard/deep and hits my cervix, it HURTS Im not saying id want his smaller (nor bigger) But if it were, i wouldnt care Smaller just means we could be less careful about hurting me And larger would just mean being more careful not to be too rough Tldr; It really doesnt matter how large a mans p***s is If it works, then its perfect :3 Well that's your opinion and I guess some are different. But I've never met a girl that isn't appreciative of size. Small is fine. Average is fine. But I believe bigger is better. The v****a is longer than a few inches lol. If you can't feel past 2 then perhaps something is wrong :S? Actualy, its quite a known fact that girls cant feel all of their inside Yes, it is longer than a few inches Girls also vary in size down there Nothing is wrong with me, nor with any other girl (unless stated by a doctor) Bigger isnt better to me, cervix being hit is mighty painful Ive heard it compared to being hit in the balls If that gives you any idea
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 11:21 am
xChibi Cannibalx I feel this came off kind of rude Just because a guy finishes fast doesnt mean anything And size definately doesnt have to do with how fast you finish My boyfriend is close to 7 inches and he can last anywhere between a few minutes, to, i think the longest was an hour and a half It just depends how fast we both want to finish If both want it done fast and simple, theres no shame in that cat_3nodding And even if he wanted it done fast but she didnt, it doesnt mean he should be shamed at all It is hard to control when youre going to finish after all So take it as a compliment - Youre just so hot, he couldnt help himself That's not what I was implying, but thank you for the clarification. I'm glad you have a caring boyfriend who is willing to work with you. My post came from a semester full of disappointment and one-night stands, so I guess it should be more obvious that those guys didn't care about coordinating with me - only about busting a nut. (With years of practice it's not entirely hard to control when you're going to finish... but I digress.)
But Thank you! I shall take it for a compliment... Or Ill try at least. Lately I've been very stressed from college and I gained a lot of weight. I feel very fat and I feel even more worthless when no body wants to be with me, but everybody wants to screw me and then leave. (Perhaps I'm exaggerating, but it's been a really lonely school year. I hate it and my self esteem is in shambles.)
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 11:26 am
xChibi Cannibalx Actualy, its quite a known fact that girls cant feel all of their inside Yes, it is longer than a few inches Girls also vary in size down there Nothing is wrong with me, nor with any other girl (unless stated by a doctor) Bigger isnt better to me, cervix being hit is mighty painful Ive heard it compared to being hit in the balls If that gives you any idea See this is probably where we get into personal preference. It's great that you know your own body, but not everyone's works like that. I can feel far more inside than the first 2 inches as typically quoted in health books/anatomy books. Not only is it longer than a few inches, it can also expand and engorge with bloodflow and increase sensitivity with some clever foreplay. I personally really enjoy my cervix being poked and I find that the right rhythm actually helps me climax. I'm sure this is different depending on the person so... Not to be rude, but I would ask that you stop correcting people with the things that apply specifically to you.
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 11:41 am
cabbage3 xChibi Cannibalx Actualy, its quite a known fact that girls cant feel all of their inside Yes, it is longer than a few inches Girls also vary in size down there Nothing is wrong with me, nor with any other girl (unless stated by a doctor) Bigger isnt better to me, cervix being hit is mighty painful Ive heard it compared to being hit in the balls If that gives you any idea See this is probably where we get into personal preference. It's great that you know your own body, but not everyone's works like that. I can feel far more inside than the first 2 inches as typically quoted in health books/anatomy books. Not only is it longer than a few inches, it can also expand and engorge with bloodflow and increase sensitivity with some clever foreplay. I personally really enjoy my cervix being poked and I find that the right rhythm actually helps me climax. I'm sure this is different depending on the person so... Not to be rude, but I would ask that you stop correcting people with the things that apply specifically to you. I said "to me" specificaly stating that it was my opinion Im not correcting, but simply statign that ALL girls DONT work the same Most females hate the feeling of the cervix being hit I cant change that, but am glad it doesnt hurt all females I just happen to be in the majority where it does happen to hurt
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 11:47 am
cabbage3 That's not what I was implying, but thank you for the clarification. I'm glad you have a caring boyfriend who is willing to work with you. My post came from a semester full of disappointment and one-night stands, so I guess it should be more obvious that those guys didn't care about coordinating with me - only about busting a nut. (With years of practice it's not entirely hard to control when you're going to finish... but I digress.)
But Thank you! I shall take it for a compliment... Or Ill try at least. Lately I've been very stressed from college and I gained a lot of weight. I feel very fat and I feel even more worthless when no body wants to be with me, but everybody wants to screw me and then leave. (Perhaps I'm exaggerating, but it's been a really lonely school year. I hate it and my self esteem is in shambles.) Ive never had a one night stand so i dont know what those guys are like I would imagine it would be about, as you said, busting a nut hah I doubt youre even close to being 'fat' I havent gone to college yet, i start next semester so i can only imagine the stress But ive also heard from studies on the internet and tv, that it is a lot more common in college to 'hit it and quit' And a lot less people seem to date when they are in college I wouldnt take it to heart about people just wanting sex I suggest looking for a partner somewhere outside of college (not saying all college students refuse to date and only have sex, im saying from the studies ive red/watched that it is just more common)
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 12:26 pm
xChibi Cannibalx Ive never had a one night stand so i dont know what those guys are like I would imagine it would be about, as you said, busting a nut hah I doubt youre even close to being 'fat' I havent gone to college yet, i start next semester so i can only imagine the stress But ive also heard from studies on the internet and tv, that it is a lot more common in college to 'hit it and quit' And a lot less people seem to date when they are in college I wouldnt take it to heart about people just wanting sex I suggest looking for a partner somewhere outside of college (not saying all college students refuse to date and only have sex, im saying from the studies ive red/watched that it is just more common) Yeah... You do have a point there. I did take it to heart. I just see my friends getting boyfriends and stuff and I feel so alone and unloveable. (I'm probably not as fat as I think... I mean my body fat percentage is on the lower edge of unhealthy, but I can totally improve that with some exercise, proper eating, and getting enough sleep I think. This is just the largest I've ever been - I'm a petite person - and coupled with disappointing my professors and being isolated from my peers, it all just builds up ya know?)
I probably shouldn't take it personally, or probably should acknowledge that there's more to it that being fat or being unable to perform... It's the winter season and I do get the winter blues, so probably everything seems negative in my mind when really it's just neutral.
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 1:23 pm
SinfulPanda Well that's your opinion and I guess some are different. But I've never met a girl that isn't appreciative of size. Small is fine. Average is fine. But I believe bigger is better. A lot of people do like a small p***s, usually because it's easier on their jaw during oral sex or because a longer p***s hits their cervix and they don't like the feeling. Others like a larger one for various reasons. But most don't care much either way. So if you like a larger p***s, that's totally fine, and you're certainly not alone. But the way you presented it before (when you said, "Size matters" and "Bigger is better,") it did sound like you were trying to pass your personal opinion off as fact. SinfulPanda The v****a is longer than a few inches lol. If you can't feel past 2 then perhaps something is wrong :S? Nothing is necessarily wrong with a girl if she can't feel much 2 inches beyond the entrance of her v****a. Most of us actually only have those extra sensitive nerve endings within the first couple of inches of our v****a. That means most of us aren't going to feel as much beyond that. And that's one reason why length doesn't matter much to most of us.
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 9:10 pm
Of course what I have been writing is opinion.
Each to their own.
But that can be said about anything, i.e. more money = better.
A lot would agree, but a lot would disagree.
99.99% of this thread is opinion lol.
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