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Bright_Death

Winter Phantom

PostPosted: Fri Aug 07, 2009 12:43 am


It doesn't really matter to me. I've read a nice number of yaoi with shorter semes, and it's still adorable. So long as the uke is more adorable in some way then the seme, then it's fine. But then there are ones that have the seme more adorable, and the uke rather possessive. e_e

For real life situations, I suppose it's the same. I've seen plenty of couples that makes it seem as if the shorter one would be the seme. Well, the taller guys were shyer. >>;

Personally, I'm on the shorter side. And I would prefer my seme to be taller. But I'm a seke so... <_<;;
PostPosted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 8:18 am


Hm, mew. I don't think it really should matter, but there is the usual stereotype for the uke to be shorter. But hey, yaoi is yaoi, height really doesn't matter! xd whee Mew! >w<

KawaiiAngelNekoRose


Broken Hearted Hiei

PostPosted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 12:22 am


I honestly don't think it matters. ^_^ It really shouldn't anyway.
PostPosted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 1:17 am


No, I don't think it should. xd It's stupid anyway, like saying only... blue eyed people could only play a certain game or something...

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69_Go-Go_69

PostPosted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 2:57 pm


Yeah it kinda does... I tend to lilke the ukes shorter and girlier and all submissive and junk... but that's just me.
 
PostPosted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 3:42 pm


Traditionally/stereotypically, they're both tall, but the "seme" is usually taller, even if only by a bit- like a few inches.

But being me and disliking such stereotypes, when I was hammering out of the details of the LGBT-themed book I am writing at the moment, I made the extremely dominant character drastically shorter than the apathetic, submissive one. Just cause I like to try to break conventions like that. ninja

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protecterofelements

PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 6:58 am


no i don't think so
PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:09 am


I actually think it makes the yaoi much funnier and more entertaining when the Uke is the tall masculine looking guy but acts like a lil kid and is very emotionally immature

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 6:29 pm


It doesn't really.
PostPosted: Thu Dec 24, 2009 8:16 pm


Its not a matter its a MUST!

In a yaoi, the height really does matter I mean would you like to see a short skinny nerdy boy thrusting behind a 6-footer muscular dude? No right.

That's my personal opinion though.

nikaido24


Infinite Pandora

PostPosted: Thu Dec 24, 2009 9:12 pm


Yeah it does matter in yaoi.
Since a lot of yaoi uke's and seme's are determined by height, there's usually a HUGE difference.
I have yet to read where the guys physical appearence appear to be the same.
Actually I have, and switches are refreshing in a yaoi story.
PostPosted: Thu Dec 24, 2009 10:10 pm


Although I love a twink-ish uke... I don't think height matters.

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Tsukumo12

PostPosted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 7:16 am


It doesn't matter to me.
PostPosted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 8:40 am


I don't really care. I think it matters. Mind you a dramatic size difference would be odd, but I don't like that stereotype of the size and stuff.

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Dapper Ghost

PostPosted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 4:43 pm


Considering the fact that I had a dream last night where a shorter, dark-haired guy was topping, my answer on this should be obvious.
(I was more surprised by having a dream with m/m in it than anything.)

I don't care for the height-rule at all, at all. Especially when you see fanart where the character's relative heights are altered just to fit it, ugh.
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