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 Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2009 9:27 am
Some girls love being insulted/teased, not around a crowd, but alone. Turns me on biggrin
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Posted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 5:10 am
i read one of those 1950's "how to please your man" magazine articles not so long ago...tucked in amongst the gruesome sexist points like " fetch him his slippers after he returns home from work" and always bake his favourite desert on saturdays" (ewwwwwwwww!).... was a great tip - never let him see you plucking your eyebrows (or any other kind of grooming you do like that wink ) boys are easily horrified and become nauseaus over this sort of thing, they know we do it but they don't want to see it happening, it will spoil your air of mystery.
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Posted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 5:59 pm
great advice up in here=]
im not good with advice sooo xD
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Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 2:22 am
I can honestly say that for me and my fiancee we didn't really follow much of any advice. We've been together for almost 3 years and known each other for almost 4. But we are extremely happy and stressed over a wedding that happens in 2 months. Both of us were shy, me much less then her, when we met. My little piece of advice for all those shy people, as someone who actually overcame being shy, start small when trying to get out of your box. It took me almost 3 years to get to the point that I could just walk up and start talking to a girl and make her give me a phone number after a few mins. And by then I had found the woman of my dreams so I didn't need to.
What I did is I went places where no one knew me and acted like the fool I always was and it slowly turned to where everyone knew me so I was acting like a fool in front of a bunch of friends.
Remember a friend is just someone you haven't started hanging out with yet,
and a significant other is just a friend you haven't realized you can't live without.
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Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 4:55 pm
My boyfriend and I have nothing in common lol. serriously I love red and he loves blues and greens. I'm tall and slender he's short an stocky. I'm a bit shy and he's super out going. I'm more caring and thoughtful and he get's caught up in the moment. I get angry at the drop of the hatSo I guess my advice is just be with someone who clicks with you. We click when we're together we just work. Well here's some advice I've learned in my life Don't let your first love be your last! Love like you've never been hurt Listen! Listen! LISTEN! talk about s3x! because communication will only make things better wink Don't lose sight of your self!
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Posted: Sun Apr 12, 2009 1:55 pm
This thread is so full of fail....
I - I just can't stop laughing!
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 3:27 am
Asevenex This thread is so full of fail.... I - I just can't stop laughing! rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl and your tips would be?
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Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 8:29 am
some of this made me giggle, and some is very good advice. mostly, i would say this: go out with the intent to have fun. be yourself as much as your nerves will allow. do not go into a date looking for mr/mrs perfect... go into it to just be out and about and meeting people. dates are nothing. the people you spend actual time with, they come at you when you're not expecting it.
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Posted: Fri May 22, 2009 11:42 am
This is an excellent guide,and i will check back often to refresh my memory of these important tips <3
I do have a few problems,though.I cant help but feel discouraged about dating and relationships lately,because it feels like its difficult and perhaps impossible to meet someone who i would be interested in dating or being with.I have no problem attracting men,it's just the type that i seem to attract sweatdrop they usually fall under these categories:
1.Theyre much too young!Not talking a year younger,either.I would feel like a creep for dating them.
2.Theyre much too old.I would feel uncomfortable and out of my league dating anyone more that 6 years my senior.
3.Theyre beliefs contradict my own.That may sound shallow,but it's hard to be with someone who thinks what you believe in is stupid or vise versa.
4.Theyre bat-s**t crazy.
I want someone with similar interests and philosophy,but they have their own identity.Someone who compliments my presonality instead of mirroring it.A part of me is holding out because i really want to be swept off my feet.I just dont want to settle anymore.It's corny,and I'm ashamed to admit it.I want that feeling of excitement and mutual attraction!Another part of me is terrified of the potential rejection,or worse,the disappointment of discovering that the person is not who i thought they were.Underneath my confident stride,amiable personality,and cool countenance lies a plethora of insecurity about interacting with the opposite sex on an intimate and romantic level.The thought of failure makes me shy away.I've begun to wonder if i should accept the idea of spending the rest of my life holding out for someone and something that doesnt exist.
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Posted: Tue Jun 09, 2009 7:37 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 12, 2009 7:58 am
village midget Asevenex This thread is so full of fail.... I - I just can't stop laughing! rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl and your tips would be? Just this one: Take NO ONE'S advice. What works for one person isn't a guarantee that it will work for another. I know this by experience. Everyone's best bet is to simply be themselves.
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Posted: Sun Jun 14, 2009 11:37 am
I met my husband at a bar-I was waving to an acquaintance and he thought I was waving to him. I was 5 mths pregnant and wasn't looking for anything, much less a relationship. One of my friends had told me that I needed to get out, that I had become a recluse. It turns out that he actually had met me a couple years prior when I was a cashier & he had regreted not talking to me then.
But the best advice that I've given my kids is to never date your friends or siblings ex's. It's creates way tooooo much conflict.
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Posted: Sun Jun 14, 2009 1:59 pm
Ron Dickles This is an excellent guide,and i will check back often to refresh my memory of these important tips <3
I do have a few problems,though.I cant help but feel discouraged about dating and relationships lately,because it feels like its difficult and perhaps impossible to meet someone who i would be interested in dating or being with.I have no problem attracting men,it's just the type that i seem to attract sweatdrop they usually fall under these categories:
1.Theyre much too young!Not talking a year younger,either.I would feel like a creep for dating them.
2.Theyre much too old.I would feel uncomfortable and out of my league dating anyone more that 6 years my senior.
3.Theyre beliefs contradict my own.That may sound shallow,but it's hard to be with someone who thinks what you believe in is stupid or vise versa.
4.Theyre bat-s**t crazy.
I want someone with similar interests and philosophy,but they have their own identity.Someone who compliments my presonality instead of mirroring it.A part of me is holding out because i really want to be swept off my feet.I just dont want to settle anymore.It's corny,and I'm ashamed to admit it.I want that feeling of excitement and mutual attraction!Another part of me is terrified of the potential rejection,or worse,the disappointment of discovering that the person is not who i thought they were.Underneath my confident stride,amiable personality,and cool countenance lies a plethora of insecurity about interacting with the opposite sex on an intimate and romantic level.The thought of failure makes me shy away.I've begun to wonder if i should accept the idea of spending the rest of my life holding out for someone and something that doesn't exist. ok, something about this post clicked in my mind. ill go through the point that did it; Quote: 1.Theyre much too young!Not talking a year younger,either.I would feel like a creep for dating them. age by legal terms is crucial. a 20 year old who dates and has a sexual relationship with a 14 year old is considered a *****. but the difference after 16 (in Australia at least i believe?) in my mind is not so important. what matters is maturity. i am a 16 year old male and have no friends in my grade. my only friend at school is in the year above me and all the rest of my friendships (and relationships) are based outside of school with people sometimes ten years older than me. i only recently broke up with Jade whom i met at a bus stop (points to the original advice 'you can meet someone anywhere') she was turning 19 this year and had turned 19 when we where still in a relationship. i have met some 20 year olds that i would consider 15 and some 14 year olds i would consider 19. to me, literal age is not a big deal.
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:57 pm
well this certainly boosts my confidence, it seems I'm already doing a lot of things right I'm just too shy to ask someone out or ask for their number
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